Coping with depression, suicidal thoughts and apathy, by finding a

• Chapter One - Are You Depressed? A short quiz.
• Chapter Two - Starseed Sadness.
• Chapter Three - Light Worker Mid-life Blues.
• Chapter Four - What makes you Depressed and how to Release it forever! Drugs, Alcohol, Broken relationships, Work and Failure, Sexual problems, Illness, Loneliness and Death.
• Chapter Five - Family and Friends.
• Chapter Six - Walk Ins - A different kind of suicide. NDE's
• Appendage - Our free ebook links and other links

If you are reading this book, it is highly likely that you feel very depressed, apathetic with life or even suicidal at this time. Everyone feels like this at some time during their lives, but most people choose not to suicide and leave this current life, but instead stay and find a new direction and purpose for living. This is what we hope to offer you, purpose for living, a reason for remaining here in the human body and a new uplifting direction for you to take in life. No matter how impossible this may seem to you at this time, please keep reading our book to the end! After all this could be the most important information you have ever read, that is truly relevant to you!

Whether you are a Starseed, a young person born since 1971 who is confused about their purpose here on Earth or a Light Worker pre 1971 who is thoroughly disillusioned with life or an person facing a life threatening illness or life trauma - please understand that there are reasons for the way you feel and there are practical and uplifting solutions to end your despair! Apathy on the other hand means that you feel very weary with life and unable to make any effort to make your life more interesting or positive. Apathy is often a result of depression.

Here is what one of the Ascended Masters, Mother Mary has said about depression -

"Tell my dear ones not to despair and that there is hope! Do not give into apathy, depression and fear. You can change your life around and create the life you want! You all have immense, undiscovered paranormal powers which can be reactivated and used to create a meaningful, contented life for yourselves. We in Spirit, are just a breath away from you and more than willing to help you. Contact us, pray to us, call us in your meditations, listen to us, feel our love. We will never desert you. Find your true purpose for incarnating - for there is one! You only have to search and find it!

And do not give into thoughts of suicide. For I tell you this - those who take their lives prematurely, before their divine missions are fulfilled, almost certainly, return immediately into the form of a new born baby. Then they have to go through the arduous task of growing up and becoming adults again, in similar surroundings and WITH THE SAME SET OF EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS! So you can't circumvent your missions or dodge your life lessons, no matter how many times you opt out of life by suicide. So why not stay and live out this life as you planned. Believe me, dear ones, it will become better. You will find love and contentment. You can make a difference!"

If there is an external event such as a death in the family, diagnosis of a life threatening disease, end of a romance or job redundancy, that has caused this depression, we urge you to seek short term medical or psychiatric assistance, to deal with this traumatic event. The mind and body are often very resilient and in time, your normal positive nature will return.

However, if there is no specific external event causing your depression and you have ticked more than two questions with a YES and the depression has lasted longer than several weeks, we suggest that you consult a doctor, psychologist or psychiatrist to help you with your depression, as it may be caused by some chemical imbalance within your body or deep seated emotional trauma.

If you are currently taking antidepressant drugs or involved in orthodox treatment of any kind, we suggest that you continue with these in the short term. There are also, many web sites devoted to helping depressed people. We will list them at the end of this book. However, we hope that the answers, we will give you in this book, will help you to look on your condition in a totally different way and help you to create a more contented, joyful life for yourself. So that you no longer feel that "I don't want to be here!"

 Astral attack. When a person uses drugs and alcohol abusively or engages in lower behaviour, they create negative tears in their astral and auric bodies. They are prone then to lower astral attack by negative entities. This causes them confusion and depression. Solution. Stop using the drugs and alcohol. Live a cleaner more spiritual life and cleanse yourself with the help of angels. Use our protection technique. See chapter on Walk Ins. 

STARSEED SADNESS

If you have been born after 1971 and are a sensitive, new age person, who often feels sad, apathetic and depressed, without purpose in life and totally confused about your future and what others expect from you - it is highly likely that you are a Starseed. From information gained from our spiritual clairvoyant channellings from the Ascended Masters (Divine Beings who have lived on Earth) and Archangels, we have been told that 80% of young people born on Earth, since the early 1970's, have in previous lives, spent most of their former incarnations or lifetimes in the Pleiades constellation.

The Pleiades home worlds are completely different to Earth. No wonder that you don't feel happy here and old Earth doesn't seem too familiar! The Pleiades home worlds exist in the fifth and higher dimensions, while Earth is just coming into the fourth dimension. Therefore Earth seems very barbaric and very harsh to you!

 On the Pleiades, the people live in harmony, joy and unity. All help each other, in a loving, unconditional manner. Their psychic gifts are fully developed and daily living is not a struggle, as there are adequate resources for all. There is no child abuse, greed or striving for material success, but instead, gentle, peaceful, artistic, communal living. No wonder you feel confused to be here and more than a little depressed!

Your present situation is similar, to that of a civilised, gentle, intelligent person brought up in a loving, rich household, who suddenly finds themselves thrown into the gutter, in a harsh slum! But, if you identify with this .. WAIT! ….. there is a reason you are here and there are ways to eliminate the harsh conditions around you and make a life similar to that on the Pleiades.

Pleiadian traits relate to You. Why not tick them, as you go!

Here are some of the typical characteristics of a Starseed or Pleiadian, they are;

How many have you scored? Five or more and you are obviously a Starseed!

Well, first you must realise why you incarnated to Earth this time and not to the Pleiades. After all, you did have choice! You could have spent another thousand years or so there, but you said, "No! This time I choose to incarnate and spend a life time on Earth!"

Why would you do this? Why would you willingly give up a higher existence on the loving fifth dimension and volunteer to come down to the coarse third/fourth dimension, for eighty years or so?

This is what Spirit (Masters and Angels) have told us in channelings -

"These young ones are so brave. They come to Earth, Gaia with a special mission! They come to bring a unique energy to the planet that will help to lift it from the harsh third dimension, into the fourth dimension of expanding psychic gifts, into the higher dimension of the fifth, where peace, unconditional love and unity will become universal!

Where all Earth beings, men, women, children, black, white, yellow, red and brown, will live as One. Helping each other. Ending wars and conflicts. Ending famine and disease. Promoting hope and faith. This is a wonderful, spiritual, voluntary mission that these young ones are on! Although, they give up much to be here, they will find their way. They will remember their individual and combined missions. They will live beyond the mundane life and make their lifetime here on Earth, valuable and meaningful!

Unfortunately, many of them, when born, experienced the veil of amnesia and forgot their Divine missions. They felt alone, abandoned and sad. They do not want to take on the values of their parents - the materialistic lifestyle. They want to be free and without pressure and stress, to live the lives, they want!

Many of them have turned to drugs and alcohol, as a way of softening the experience of harsh Earth, but this has it's own traps of further amnesia, health risks and mental confusion. Others feel apathetic, disillusioned and depressed, because they have an inner knowing that they are wasting their time here, living in an ordinary human way!

It is now time for them to wake up, to why they are here! To begin their Life and World Plans and Divine Missions and create more Pleiadian-type lifestyles, here on Earth. Have you young ones, the courage to do so? Accept the challenge and we in Spirit will give you much strength and guidance!" Archangel Michael.

Awesome words aren't they! Do you now understand, that you personally volunteered to live out this incarnation on Earth - for a higher reason? You are not meant to be like everyone else! You are meant to remember your Life and World Plans and Divine Missions and implement them. Stop being stressed about "fitting in" and being different, you are different! Divinely different!

Stop thinking of death as a way out and start thinking about activating your Divine Mission! You are a multi-talented, psychically gifted person who has a great contribution to give to humanity and the planet. Start living like one!

More importantly, you are NOT ALONE. There are literally millions of Starseeds out there, like you, trying to wake up, trying to remember why they incarnated, trying to activate their Divine Missions! Plus Spirit, in the form of your Guardian Angels, Ascended Masters, Archangels and others are all trying to help you to remember and willing to give you personal guidance. Pretty amazing, isn't it?

You have been sad, depressed, apathetic and tired, because you are finding it hard living in the lower third and fourth dimension. The vibration is harsher. Your physical body feels heavier, because it's in a third dimensional existence. That is why many young Starseed girls become ANOREXIC, to try to subconsciously regain a lighter, thinner Pleiadian body. They haven't yet realised that they need a heavier body on 3D Earth! Also, the food here on Earth is much heavier. You live on much lighter substances, such as fruit and honeyed liquid on the Pleiades. And you definitely don't eat meat - the vibration is too harsh!

That is why there is a growing tendency to vegetarianism, amongst the Starseeds.

Those in authority tell you to be honest, fair and gentle, while at the same time they glorify war and tell you all's fair in business and success comes from greed! Most people aren't unconditionally loving and don't work from highest intent - but on the Pleiades (where you've just incarnated from) they do follow these higher values. No wonder you can't figure Earth out! It's not surprising that you often feel that you are the odd one out!

Emotionally, the Earth and the Pleiades are also complete contrasts. On the Pleiades Home Worlds, the people live in peace, abundance and unconditional love. Everyone works for the betterment of the planet and the population. On Earth, sadly, these are not the main priorities among humans. No wonder, that you have often felt that people here are harsh and primitive. They are, in comparison to what you have formerly known!

Spiritually also, things are very different between the two civilisations. On the Pleiades, they are fully aware of higher spiritual beings and interact with them often. Their lifestyle is based on spiritual, not materialistic values. Children are taught at an early age, to respect all life forms. In comparison Earth, alas, is a barren wasteland.

But, before we make you feel even more depressed - remember this is why you and millions of others have incarnated at this time, to change these harsh conditions. And you can do it! You just need to begin to organise yourself and begin. Accept Archangel Michael's challenge. We will show you how. Soon you will feel too busy, fulfilled and contented to feel sad and depressed! You will be living your Life Plans and World Plans and beginning your Divine Missions! Read on …..

This extract is taken from our ebook The Secret Rules of Life

Before incarnating, the scenario goes something like this - You meet with your Guides and Higher beings and review your previous lives, particularly the most recent past life. This is all done in an amicable, helpful way. There are no great trials or condemnation of your former activities on Earth or the Pleiades. No one judges you. But, wishing to better yourself spiritually, you may be a little harsh on your own faults and misdemeanors! Knowing that you have sown negative karma, you normally decide to come back and repay any individual person that you have hurt in the past, by giving them positive, helpful actions.

You scrutinise your character and may decide to work on aspects which seem unloving, in your next life. You may also, have a particular interest which you wish to continue following. If you were a musician on the Pleiades, you may decide to become a musician on Earth and bring in revolutionary new musical techniques. With the help of your Guides, you will draw up a major Life plan for yourself. This plan will consist of who you will be born to (your mother and father) and where (your country, region, social status and religious background), what will be the major events in your life, who you will interact with and what qualities you wish to develop.

In your Life plan you will choose life lessons - good and bad, which will allow you to have the opportunity to repay many of the negative karmic debts, that you have accumulated in previous lives. It is important to realise, that YOU choose your life lessons - not anyone else! And because, you're so much braver in the higher realms, you choose often very harsh, spectacular ones!!

So, if you have problems in your love life, sex life, work arena, school studies, family problems - remember you chose them, because you wanted to face these particular issues, conquer or accept them and go on with your life! They have not been thrust upon you, by an uncaring Universe and they have not been sent to defeat you!

Your World Plan, works in many ways similarly to your Life Plan, but it is oriented more towards how you can help humanity, as a whole. Although, it may mean some karmic repayments, it is more likely to be an unselfish offering of your talents and gifts, for the betterment of society. For instance, if you are interested in people and have some healing abilities, you may decide to donate your healing services to an organisation such as the Peace Corps or World Vision, for a period of time, in order to help those people suffering, in medically under serviced lands.

Others may choose to work as amateur counselors, healers or spiritual teachers, as part of their World Plan. Often, our chosen professions may complement the activities in our World Plan, but sometimes they are completely different. The local postman may be a wonderful healer in his spare time or the young mother down the road, may be an excellent spiritual counsellor. Our World Plan draws upon our interests and special talents and unselfishly, funnels them towards where they are most needed.

To understand our World Plan, we look at our gifts and talents that we have developed over our many lives, and examine them carefully. What fields are we drawn to, in order to fully express them as a loving gift to humanity?

Often, we are given little nudges by life, to use our talents in this way. Don’t let these nudges go unnoticed! We may not all be able to fully commit our lives to the service of others, like the late Mother Theresa of India, but we can join local charities or work groups, to help others in need. We can learn healing techniques and attempt to heal our families and pets and we can lend a sympathetic ear, to friends in trouble. The choices are endless, just follow your natural loving inclinations!

Through meditation and prayer, we can ask the Divine to direct us towards understanding our World Plan.

Here is an exercise to help you discover your Life and World Plans from our free ebook Starseeds. Have paper and pen ready.

Which TEN activities do I perform, in a normal week (when I'm not depressed), that give me the most amount of personal enjoyment and fun?

The next step, is to carefully look at Your two chosen activities, numbers 1 and 2, and write out a list, of all the professions/jobs, that include these activities. An example of this could be, that You like painting and caring for animals. Therefore, how about becoming a pet portrait artist? Or You like developing Your psychic and spiritual abilities and caring for people. How about becoming an alternate healer? With a little thought, it is easy to work out the ideal profession/job for Yourself.

We recommend, that You start Your new career, as either a hobby or a voluntary part time commitment. This will give You the opportunity to try it, before totally committing yourself to the new career choice.

If You discover that Your new hobby or part time commitment is not the ideal career choice for Yourself, redo the above exercise. This time, include in the second exercise, some of the new skills and activities that You currently like to perform in Your hobby. This will make Your second attempt at the exercise, more accurate. Now which other hobby or part time work commitment, would You like to attempt?

Continue to redo the exercise, as many times as necessary. Persist in changing Your hobby or part time commitment, until You discover the ideal career opportunity for Yourself. The tiny amount of effort that You have to put into discovering it, is nothing, compared to the amount of personal pleasure and inner fulfillment it will give You, for the rest of Your life!

Now, You should have realised, that by discovering what Your World Plan is and making it a major component of Your life, (e.g. chosen career), You will be getting paid to perform the activity, that You gives You the most amount of pleasure and inner fulfillment! No longer, will Your work or career, be mind numbing. It will be like Love - You'll never be able to get enough of it!

Freewill is the most important aspect of all incarnations. No matter what our higher intentions may be, before incarnating - we are allowed to make our own mistakes, while we are here. Because, we incarnate in an amnesiac state, forgetting all our higher aspirations, we often fail to take the opportunities to repay karma or create positive karma for the future.

Once, we have some understanding of our Life Plan, we realise that everything is meant to happen, as it does. This is what we asked for! We learn not to resent any supposedly negative situations and not to try to manipulate people and events. By treating everyone, as a potential opportunity to repay karma, positively, we do not create any further negative karma or create enemies in this life or the next!

You will also find that positivity is like a snowball, if you begin to be more caring, happy and confident, so positive people and situations are drawn to you. The snowball gets bigger and you affect others around you to become more positive! Spiritually, we call this synergy.

Your Divine Missions are planned before you incarnate. With the assistance of Advisory Angels, you look at a specific spiritual and psychic gift that you can redevelop on Earth and unite with others with similar gifts to change or improve some condition on Earth.

We say redevelop these psychic gifts, rather than develop them, because you have used them successfully in many former lifetimes and on the Pleiades, they are generally used by all! You just have to learn to reawaken the memory of them and learn to use them skillfully, once more.

Some of these psychic gifts may include -

Look at this list - does something stir your interest? Do you feel a drawing to one or more of these gifts? Or perhaps your interest lies outside this list. Write down those that appeal to you. Remember that you will probably be performing these abilities, in groups of like minded people.

Now sit and meditate and ask the Universe/Spirit to send to you, over a period of a few weeks, a clearer understanding of your Divine Mission. Then allow yourself, in your daily routine, to become aware of synchronicity (Spirit sending the same message to you in multiple ways).

What do we mean by this? Well say for instance, that you are drawn to the subject of Astral travelling, on our list. You'd love to travel, not only over the earth, without paying air fares, but also into space and interdimensionally. When you meditate, you visualise yourself in astral form (starry body) travelling around the planet. It feels very real to you. You turn on the television and there is a program about Far Seeing and Astral Travelling being broadcast. The next day you pick up a book at a book stall, with a title - Astral Traveling. You see a psychic/spiritual class (such as The Abbotts free classes about Astral travelling). You decide to download it.

You meet a new friend who tells you she would love to learn to astral travel, in a group. You meet up at night and learn to astral travel together. You meet others who also want to work in a group. You decide to use your combined psychic energy - synergy, in a group at night when asleep, to travel to places of great pollution, such as toxic dumps and begin to psychically clean up the area. These areas become less negative and more positive. Each month we have a Starseed Mission project at our website in the Starseed World section. Why not join us next month?

Can you then see how synchronicity, awareness and synergy, plus Spirit help, has led you to accomplishing a very beneficial act for the planet? Plus, you have made new spiritual, like-minded friends! Life has become so much more rewarding and happy. Now you can deal with any life problems that arise, in a much, more balanced, optimistic manner. No longer are you depressed and apathetic. You are a Starseed on a Divine Mission with true purpose. Life is truly worth living.

 By gradually increasing the number of your psychic gifts and learning more about the spiritual world that is accessible to us all, you will create an emotionally richer life for yourself. Your spiritual journey will introduce you to new, stimulating friends and you will experience life changing and inspiring life situations. This exciting journey begins with you making a decision to change your perception or slant on life. To no longer see it as threatening or dull and mundane, but to now see that you are here for a divine and very special reason and you can change your life for the better.

 Places to meet other Starseeds -

A little bit of effort, can result in meeting similar people like yourself. Once you have formed a group, begin to develop your psychic talents and gifts and then use them for a higher intent!

An affirmation given to us by The Ascended Masters to say aloud, many times daily, which will help to activate the spiritual side of your nature is -

We suggest that for specific problems such as Drugs, Sexual Confusion, Broken Relationships, Loneliness, Illness, Work and Success problems, that you read Chapter Four of this book.

LIGHTWORKER MID-LIFE BLUES

If you are a Light Worker, you were born prior to 1970 and have a deep interest in the psychic and spiritual side of your nature. Here is a brief description of a Light worker, taken from our free ebook Light Worker. We suggest that you link to this book, for further information on Light Worker abilities and Life purposes.

Many Lightworkers chose to incarnate from the mid 1940’s onwards and are often called the Baby Boomers. They are now the parents of the Starseeds and the Grandparents of the Love Children. They chose Life plans which would enable them to take on the roles of parents, to encourage their Starseed children to develop their spiritual natures. They experienced the Hippy days of the 1970’s, free love and more radical thinking, towards religion and community concepts. They were much more open, loving and lenient with their children and attempted to breakdown the stereotypes of male and female behaviour.

Women’s Liberation was successfully introduced, during their youth and women gained more equal status in society with men. Racial integration and harmony has also occurred during their lifetime. Many Lightworkers incarnated spiritually, to bring light to the planet, as nuclear threat and the cold war crisis loomed menacingly over humanity.

 The sighting of UFOs in the later part of the 1940’s (due to nuclear testing in the USA) and the threat that these aliens (The Greys) posed towards society, also encouraged the Lightworkers to incarnate at that time, to counteract this negative influence.

Many Lightworkers started the current New Age Movement. They broke away from traditional forms of religions and worship and began to explore their own psyches. They have encouraged their own children to explore other religions and philosophies, such as Buddhism, Hinduism, and other Eastern concepts and have motivated self exploration in psychology, psychiatry and alternative counselling techniques.

Lightworkers have investigated and instigated new and ancient concepts and healing techniques, such as reflexology, hypnosis, flower remedies, naturopathy, reiki etc. They have also been willing to open their minds up to controversial topics such as alien life, UFOs, nature kingdoms, other dimensions and angelic influences.

Many have led peace marches and protests and raised society’s consciousness towards these issues. They have developed a respect for mother nature and the animal kingdoms, developing organisations to promote these issues, such as Green Peace. Lightworkers have developed a conscience towards those who live in Third world countries and refugees and actively promoted voluntary groups to aid these oppressed people.

Their contribution to human society has been invaluable. Yet, while many work in a third dimensional way, practical way, to aid the planet and it’s peoples, others have not yet spiritually awakened to their true possibilities, as spiritual beings. So that many reach their middle aged years, feeling unfulfilled and confused! An inner voice tells them that they have experienced much in a material way. They have usually married, raised children, bought homes and often made successful careers for themselves - but still, something is deeply missing in their lives.

Many other Light Workers may also have divorced, remarried or had unsuccessful love affairs, which have caused them great emotional pain. Others have been retrenched from their work or are now experiencing financial difficulties. Others of you may be experiencing bad health or mental depression and fatigue. You may feel that life seems against you. That life doesn't seem worth living. Suicide may feel like a viable option out! But please read this small book first!

Find out about the real reason why you are experiencing these hard emotional lessons, what you can do about it and how you can rebuild a wonderfully, content life for yourself. Isn't it worth an hour of your life, to discover who you are and why you are really here on planet Earth?

 

The Baby Boomers came to Earth after the Second World War, to bring in peaceful vibrations, to help stabilise the planet and avert nuclear war and active vibrations, to cause radical changes in the social setup. Many of these goals have been successfully attained - women's rights, peace groups, children's rights, more charities and world wide assistance schemes, fewer wars and conflicts, environmental issues tackled and freer religious and spiritual beliefs explored and integrated into society.

 

But also, the Baby Boomers have experienced divorce on an unprecedented scale, domestic and international changes, such as many women working full-time after marriage and major changes in sexual attitudes and child raising. The social expectations, ethics and opinions that they set out with, in the fifties and sixties, have often been completely turned around in the 2000's. No wonder, they're feeling so confused!

Fifty years ago, at the age of fifty or sixty, most men and women were still married to the same first husband and wife. They were grandparents who lived conventional lives. The woman worked within the home and accepted being a matronly, middle-aged home maker, while the male earned the income, drove the car, knew a little about politics and drank the beer. Both looked forward to retirement and attended church regularly, each Sunday.

How many people live in this way today? Very few. Yet, the Light Workers have had to adjust to these great social changes, with very little help or sympathy from the outside world.

Today, a fifty year old woman is not considered old, like former generations. She is expected to be fashionable, healthy, knowledgeable about international events. She holds down a professional job and often has to deal with household chores, formerly delegated to the male of the household. She is expected to drive a car, travel overseas on her own, supervise auto and household repairs, visit the gym regularly, be sexually active, balance her finances, look after the needs of her children and elderly parents and pursue her own hobbies and religious interests.

 Many middle aged women have discovered that by fifty, they have not achieved the worldly or emotional success, that was promised to them, in their youth. Others have achieved the big house, new car, overseas holidays and caring spouse and yet, still feel dissatisfied. No wonder, that she feels tired, worn out, confused and depressed! It's not surprising that many middle-aged women turn to alcohol, prescribed or illegal drugs and acquire addictions to food or develop physical or mental problems.

We understand that you are feeling overwhelmed with it all - particularly if you are alone and confused. But, what we want to tell you is- that it can be sorted out! We can tell you how to find a purpose behind it all and how to design a better life for yourself!

 

 

We are not forgetting the Light Worker Male, who was born before 1970 and who is most probably a Baby Boomer. He too, is finding it a confusing, depressing world. He may have been a teenager in the 1950's or 60's. The films of that era, depict the average macho guy, that he was intended to become, as he aged. The male leads of that time were often like Marlon Brando, in "The Wild One" - rebellious, macho leaders with little respect for women. Or seducers like Rock Hudson who displayed very yang masculine traits, to their attractive yin female costars, like Doris Day or Debbie Reynolds.

 

A true macho man in the sixties, chased the woman he desired, married and mated with her and raised several children, while she stayed happily at home, vacuuming and getting ready to present him with a martini, when he returned from work at night. He made all the important decisions in life and she adored him for it. How times have changed!

The confused Baby Boomer male has had to come to terms with Women's Liberation, frozen dinners, equality in the marriage, rebellious children, female coworkers, demands on him to be physically fit, fashionable and sexually knowledgeable. Almost half the marriages in this era have ended in divorce and social and religious aspects of life, including sexual partnerships, have changed dramatically.

 

 

Many middle aged males have discovered that by fifty, they have not had the worldly success that was promised to them, in their youth. Others have achieved the big house, new car, overseas holidays or trophy wife and yet, still feel dissatisfied. They feel confused and depressed! Many Light Worker males have tried to deal with this confusion, by turning to alcohol, prescribed or illegal drugs and developed addictions to food or develop physical or mental problems.

We understand that you are probably feeling overwhelmed with it all - particularly if you are alone and confused. But, what we want to tell you is, that it can be sorted out! We can tell you how to find a purpose behind it all and how to go on to design a better life for yourself!

 First you must realise, why you are here on Earth? And guess what? It's not to be a material success! Despite what you have been conditioned to believe all your life - the richest person to die, doesn't win! Success doesn't buy you happiness and all the money in the world won't make you feel fulfilled and spiritually uplifted. Like the Beatles sang, "Money can't buy you love!"

 

To progress with your life you have to dump once and for all, these outmoded concepts.

 

Unfortunately, the governments and major religions of this planet, want you to believe that these are your prime aims in life - to be materially successful, nationalistic, ego driven and slot nicely into society, where you won't think for yourself, behave in a radical manner or be a threat to status quo around you. If you get depressed and suicide, rather than turn rebellious and lead your own life - they don't really care! They don't want you to know who you really are and why you're really here on Earth, because it doesn't suit their own purposes for you to be informed!

 

You are a spirit in human form, not a human with a small, diminutive spirit or soul. This life is one of many that you have experienced. You come to Earth to learn about yourself and others, through life experiences and lessons. Everything that happens to you happens for a purpose. There are no coincidences, no accidents and no failures. Life may seem unfair, but it is not. You asked to experience everything that happens to you, good or bad - for a higher reason. The divorce has a reason, the illness, a reason, the unmanageable kids, a reason, the redundancy at work, a reason .. Do you get the idea?

 

Now, if you are normal, by now you are saying - "No way! I love myself. I wouldn't ask for bad things to happen to me! I'm not a masochist!" Right? We've all felt like this at first. But like it or not, this is what we ask for. Why? Because, we learn quicker and more thoroughly, through pain.

 

Think about it, before you reject it. You can tell a small child, a hundred times, not to touch the hot fire and fully explain why and even reward him for not touching it. But unfortunately, one little burn will teach him forever, not to touch a fire again. (I am not advocating burning your child, by the way!) But aren't you the same? How many times did your mother and father talk to you about the "evils of alcohol"? But one binge and hangover, showed you what they meant, very quickly.

 

Of course some people are very slow learners and so the lesson and punishment (self inflicted) is repeated, until one day a light bulb goes off in your head and you suddenly realise - alcohol, drugs, bad men or women, speeding, being arrogant or too submissive - is bad for you!

 

Mostly you learn lessons, that somehow you have dodged or not learned adequately, in past lives. If you were a noble man or woman, arrogant and cruel to the peasants, in medieval France, you will find that you often return as a poor person, in this current life. But now you're in the USA or Australia, oppressed by the very same peasants! You can't escape your own karma! So we advise you to get your act together in this current life or you will take those negative karmic actions into future lives and have to relive them over!

 

Another reason that unpleasant things happen to you, is to wake you up! The sacking at work, the end of a romance or the illness, all make you stop and think - what is life about and where am I going? Quo Vadis? Your spiritual guides want you to question everything! They want you to discover the spirit within you and begin living a more spiritual, uplifting, fulfilling life!

We suggest that you read our ebooks on our website titled THE SECRET RULES OF LIFE, 100 QUESTIONS AND RELATIONSHIPS IN THE 21^ST CENTURY for more details about your spiritual nature and how to cope with modern life.

 

 

The important thing is - not to give up. To realise, that you have incarnated to Earth with a special mission. You have just been distracted for the last fifty years or so, from your true purpose for being here! You came to increase your own special spiritual light and knowledge and you came to raise the light of the planet. You came to bring in the young starseeds, as your children and you came to be grandparents to the special love children.

 

Your generation has made great changes, that have benefited the Earth and will continue to do so. You can find contentment, by joining with others, to further promote these changes. In other words, give your life meaning! This can all be done with spiritual guidance from the Ascended Masters, Angels and Guides. Now, isn't that worth living for! Please read this article that was printed in an Australian New Age Magazine, by the Abbotts. You may find that it relates to you!

 

 

Have you ever said to yourself, ‘Why is this happening to me? What did I ever do to deserve this!’

 

As a counsellor, I have listened to the complaints of many hundreds of people whose lives have been touched by tragedies and problems, which they feel, are happening through no fault of their own. They consider themselves, good, law abiding people of principle, who give to charities, believe in God and try to bring their children up in the most appropriate and loving ways and yet, bad things still happen to them. It seems, bad things do happen to good people.

 

However, looking more deeply into the issues that plague these well intentioned, but bewildered people, I have inevitably found, that these so called tragedies and problems all have deeper spiritual messages behind them. I’ve discovered, that negative situations do not happen randomly and for no apparently constructive purpose. And yes, there is always an important lesson behind every catastrophe and misfortune. More importantly, when you can begin to understand why the lesson was sent and what you are meant to do with it, then inevitably, the harsh problems begin to quickly disappear.

 

A client of mine, Susan, is a typical example of this situation. Susan is an intelligent, red-haired, attractive and well dressed woman in her mid forties. Divorced with two teenage boys, she works as a secretary with a local legal firm. She is a great organiser and has been invaluable at her Spiritual Centre, with organising fund - raising Psychic Fairs, which are held regularly. She is happy to work long hours voluntarily and has the fortunate ability of being able to wheedle help and donations out of the most unlikely people. To most people, Susan appears to be fully in control of her life.

 

Yet, Susan came to me one day, in tears of despair. Her eldest son Martin, had the week before, been arrested by the police for dealing in and using heavy drugs and at her yearly breast x ray, the doctors had discovered a lump, which would have to be surgically removed and checked for cancerous cells. She naturally enough, felt very stressed and distraught.

 

‘I’m a good person, I go to church, I believe in God, I love my children. Why has this happened to me! Why do bad things happen to me!’ Susan sobbed into her handkerchief. Her shoulders bowed with her burden. The normally confident, assertive woman had become a confused, resentful child.

 

She told me a little about her life. She had a favoured childhood, living in the country with loving, supportive parents and many friends. She had been popular at college and married an up and coming, handsome and financially well off, young man, Tom, who was training as a pharmacist. Her marriage had been happy, until in it’s twelfth year, Tom unexpectedly asked for a divorce. He had fallen in love with one of the young assistants in his pharmacy and wanted to marry her.

 

Susan was shocked and hurt, but managed to agree to a reasonably, amicable divorce and was able to live quite well, with her two sons, on her divorce settlement. Later, she decided to do a secretarial course and reentered the workforce. Her life over the last six years had been busy and seemingly pleasant. She had bought herself a small, pretty cottage and spent many hours in the garden planting and weeding. She enjoyed the company of her two children and her involvement with the Spiritual Church. I asked her to describe her usual attitude towards her life and she answered thoughtfully,’ Active and happy’.

 

Now, however her life had been rocked by the events of the last week.

‘I don’t understand what I’ve done wrong.’ she admitted to me tearfully. ‘I’ve tried to live a good life!’

 

Susan was surprised, when I asked her what she thought her life was truly about. Why had she decided to incarnate at this time? Although, she had some ideas of spiritual principles, her actual philosophy was hazy.

‘I suppose to do good. To help others.’ She answered hesitantly.

‘But, what about your own personal spiritual growth?’ I asked her.

She admitted, that she had very little time for actual contact with Spirit, meditation or spiritual reading or seminars.

‘I’d love to have more contact with Spirit, but, I have too busy a life.’ she admitted truthfully.

 

I knew that Susan had attended a four part course on Contacting your Higher Self, ( the more spiritual advanced part of you, that resides on the higher dimensions), the previous Summer and I asked her, if she would like her Higher Self to help her, during our counselling session. She readily agreed to this and mentally asked Higher Self to come in and help her.

 

I told her then, what I have told many other overly active people - that Spirit will not run beside you, trying to make contact! You must slow down and take time to make spiritual contact, meditate and examine what is happening in your current life.

 

We all incarnate with wonderful expectations of the tremendous spiritual growth we will make, in this lifetime. Yet, most of us only accomplish a small percentage of our spiritual aims. Why? Because we get so caught up in third dimensional life - family, work, sports activities, hobbies etc that we allow very, little time for our spiritual development.

 

Of course on the higher levels, before we incarnate down to Earth, we realise that we may forget why we have incarnated -' To spiritually perfect ourselves and raise the spiritual understanding of others’, so we purposely plan and place, supposedly negative situations in our lives at certain intervals, to help us ‘wake up’ to our original reasons for incarnating.

 

It would be wonderful, if we could be roused to wakefulness, by happy, loving incidents in our lives, but unfortunately most people only become aware and question their existence, when unpleasant things happen to them! As they say, ‘the churches are always full, during wartime!’

 

I asked Susan to try to look with detachment, at the two incidents which had caused her so much stress and unhappiness. Her son’s problem with drugs, ultimately was not her problem. It was his. Naturally, as a mother, she was distressed at his actions and should offer comfort and support, but it was Martin’s problem, (no doubt a wake up reminder from his own Spiritual Higher Self, to make him examine his life). We discussed, how she could spend more time with Martin, in a companionable, but not critical manner and how she could help him find professional drug counselling, for his addiction. Susan was encouraged, not to feel guilty about Martin’s addiction. It was his choice and his actions, not her own.

 

Under a light hypnosis, I asked Susan, with the help of her Higher Self, to look at the reasons for her panic about the lump in her breast and where the problem had originated. As I had suspected, it was an incident, preplanned before this lifetime and sent to her, to make her temporarily cease her overly-active lifestyle and make her sit down calmly and examine where her life was heading and what plans, she needed to make, for her spiritual and personal growth.

 

Often, people will introduce a severe disease or accident into their lives, just to get some breathing space, time out, to fully discover who they are and what they are here to accomplish.

 

Personal emotional pain in life, can also result in physical problems and under hypnosis, Susan revealed that the divorce and rejection, by her former husband Tom, had accumulated in her breast and resulted in the lump forming. I suggested that she consciously, begin to forgive Tom, ask that the lump be removed slowly by Spirit and in future, begin to release her emotional pain through words and thought, rather than submerging them, denying them and having them emerge eventually, as a physical medical problem.

 

Susan agreed and followed my exercise to release her grief in that area, forgive Tom and began to make constructive spiritual plans for her future.

 

Susan began, by cutting her work time down to several days a week, allowing her more personal time for meditation, spiritual development and quality, family time with her two sons. She was able, to calmly discuss Martin’s drug addiction with him and he agreed to have drug counselling, from a local rehabilitation centre.

 

Susan’s biopsy showed that the lump was not malignant and now, that she is aware of allowing her emotions to be constructively released, she has not experienced any similar medical problems. Most importantly, now, when negative problems occur in her life, she begins to examine the cause behind them and not just give into despair and guilt.

 

She realises that life may still bring her the occasional bad incident, but, if she is constant with her spiritual growth and more connected with her personal Spirit Guides and Higher Self, then she has invaluable advice and help to guide her in her life.

 

Yes, bad things do happen to good people. But, they do so for a purposeful reason. No accident or illness, relationship breakdown or severe problem, happens randomly. It is sent for a reason. It is usually sent to wake you up - to who you really are! Spirit in human form, sent to do great, spiritual good for yourself and humanity, not a human with a spirit, content to do everyday material things. Wake up now and many of the major problems will disappear from your life! Love and Light. The Abbotts"

 

 Okay, Now you may be saying, "But my problem is not the same as Susan's!" We understand that everyone has unique blocks and problems to look at and conquer in this lifetime. But you must realise that before you incarnated - YOU ASKED FOR THEM!

 

This is always difficult for people to accept. Why would you ask for harsh lessons? Because in the Heavenly Realms, you are so much braver than you are here. There, you like challenges! That’s why you decided to incarnate this time on Earth, not on other different and amazing constellations, but because you wanted challenges. And you must admit, that you certainly are challenged on Earth!

 

But you also added, enough strength and courage to your mental, emotional and physical makeup, to help you overcome any obstacles, no matter how large or invasive. And you also added, deep within your being, all the spiritual gifts that you would need, to become a vibrant spiritually alive person. You just haven't accessed them yet. But they are waiting for you to discover them and change your life for the better!

 

The Baby Boomers are often very psychic and can easily be taught to reawaken their spiritual gifts, such as Spiritual Healing, seeing Auric Fields, cleansing Chakras, Astral Travelling, Manifestation of material objects, Communicating with Angels and much more! They just need to be shown how!

 

You have so many gifts and qualities to give to the world. Begin to see and believe that you are a spiritual warrior on a special mission to Earth. Suicidal thoughts, apathy and Depression originate from your ego body not your spirit body! Begin to learn and live in a spiritual manner and you will find your perspective on life will change, for the better. You will then attract in positive and uplifting situations, into your life.

A little bit of effort can result in meeting similar people like yourself. Once you have formed a group, begin to develop your psychic talents and gifts and then use them for a higher intent!

An affirmation given to us by The Ascended Masters to say aloud, many times daily, which will help to activate the spiritual side of your nature is -

Lady Kwan Yin summed it up nicely, in one of her channelings to The Abbotts - "I would talk tonight of your thoughts. Your probably realise, as you are going now through the fourth dimension, how truly powerful your thoughts are! Your thoughts have great power behind them. In the past, when you thought about certain events they would manifest in time, but perhaps there would be years between the conception of the thought and the realisation of the thought. But now, you will find many things happening instantly, certainly much quicker.

And if you find yourself caught up with judgement, criticism, anger or fear, then meditate for a while in peace and look at yourself objectively. See that most negative acts that you commit on this Earth are committed through fear and that is because your ego feels that it is threatened. Your ego does not like anyone attempting to take its power, or to frighten, or hurt, or harm it in any way. If you can rise beyond the ego and see yourself as Spirit, you see the spirit is never harmed, never hurt by what happens on the Earth.

We hope that these inspirational words have touched your heart and given you new hope.

Love and Light The Abbotts.

 

Specific problems and uplifting solutions relating to Drug Abuse, Alcohol Abuse, Addictions, Relationships, Loneliness, Illness, Work, Sexual problems and Death will be given in the next chapter.

 

Every life problem is given to you for a reason. You are meant to explore the situation, make a choice to overcome it and win out successfully. Every time you win you become more spiritual and happy with life. You are meant to create the life that you want! Not what others dictate.

 

Often however, the problems seem to become insurmountable. They begin to control our whole lives, instead of being one small part of it. We think of them constantly, instead of relegating them to their proper place in our lives. We see our problems as huge obstacles and not little challenges. What is needed however, is a huge change of perspective!

 

By understanding why you are here on Earth and seeing the overview, you are able to develop a sense of humour about your problems. You see them as no different from learning to stand, walk or tie your shoe laces. They are small challenges, that you have deliberately decided to face and overcome in this lifetime. You understand that you have the mental, emotional and spiritual resources to easily overcome these problems and create the fulfilling life that you want!

"There is a spiritual reason behind alcoholism. Many sensitive souls cannot stand the harsh vibrations of planet Earth. The pain they feel from negative relationships, physical suffering, mental confusion and emotional despair, is real to them! Others may look at their lives and say, "He or she has no reason to be an alcoholic. Their life is better than mine!" But remember, you have not lived their lives, felt their suffering or been confused by the unfamiliar vibrations around them. The old Indian saying "walk a mile in my moccasins" is very apt. You can't see the pain or feel the inner turmoil, but it is there.

Many of these souls are new to the Earth plane, they are not old souls. They are becoming accustomed to it's vibration, which is much lower than where they have previously resided. To deaden the pain of being here - they drink alcohol. The alcohol at first gives them a temporary "high" feeling of contentment. They can now stand being here! Then of course they become addicted to the alcohol and it causes it's own problems of violence, sickness, bad work record, broken relationships, poverty and disillusionment. The pain they tried at first to avoid becomes far worse than they ever imagined.

Please give them your compassion and understanding. They did not take the alcohol, to become bad and broke, but instead to make life bearable.

By understanding that you are a very confused angelic being who has been initially, very brave to incarnate to Earth. Now however, you don't like the experience and you think that the alcohol will make the experience more easy to live with. But has it? No! What you need to do is regain the bravery you once felt. Realise that you came to Earth with a spiritual mission that has still to be fulfilled and live that mission!

When you begin to do this, you will no longer need the crutch of alcohol to get you through the day. As you band with other Light Workers or Starseeds who are on a similar mission, you will feel uplifted and contented. Being here, will become a joy not a trial!"

Sananda's words, are very true. When we lose our way on our Life Plan and begin to believe that the physical and materialistic life is all there is, we usually become very disheartened and turn to alcohol or drugs, as a way of bearing the unbearable.

Helpful Organisations - We suggest that you visit an A.A. meeting for emotional and mental support while you are recovering. Alcoholics Anonymous and other recovery groups, usually hold as their first principle, a belief in a higher being - God. As a Lightworker, you can use this principle to help you in a New Age manner. Find out as much as you can about the real spiritual side of yourself. Discover your Life and World Plans (see earlier) and group with others, to work out your Divine Mission. You are here for a purpose.

Finding aims in life which are higher than merely existing or being addicted to alcohol, is what you need. Sit and meditate. Ask your Higher Self and angelic Guides to help you to give up the alcohol and to find your Divine Purpose in life.

Begin to dress, act and speak in a positive manner. Be truthful about your alcoholism, but treat it as if it is diabetes or short-sightedness - restrictive, but not fatal. See yourself as an angel who has lost his way for a short time, but now is back on track. Enjoy the challenge of being here on Earth - remember you chose it!

You chose to experience alcoholism for a short time. Why? Perhaps so that you could have empathy for others who are addicted to substances. Perhaps, your World Plan involves helping others with similar problems. You understand the disease don't you? Once you have cured yourself, share the information with others!

Also, it is possible that you are patterning. Following a similar life pattern to a past life, where you also succumbed to alcohol, to avoid the harsh realities of life. Break the pattern now! Develop a joyful life for yourself, without alcohol. It can be done!

Our ebooks will help you with a greater understanding of your spiritual nature and how to activate your inherent psychic gifts, to aid your Life and World Plans. We invite you to read them.

Your depression is linked to the problems that your alcohol addiction is causing in your life and because you haven't truly discovered your real spiritual nature and Life Purpose. Begin to discover and live your spiritual Life Plan and your alcoholism will disappear. Your alcohol addiction is a wake up signal to you, that you are off your chosen spiritual path, not a life sentence. Get back on track and create a meaningful life for yourself!

The ending of a love affair can be devastating to many people. They become severely depressed and often suicidal. If you have recently experienced the ending of a long term relationship, such as marriage through divorce or a short term passionate love affair, that has left you feeling shattered, we acknowledge that it is healthy for you to mourn the ending of this treasured relationship.

But, we would say that from a spiritual aspect, the parting - was meant to be! Not only was it meant to be, but you chose for it to happen - before you incarnated to Earth. You wrote the relationship and it's eventual ending, into your Life Plan. Not only that, but your lost lover, also agreed to love you for a time, teach you certain lessons and then depart! It's just, that you've both forgotten the pact. And the pact was made, for the higher good of both of you!

"Oh, dear ones, the pain you could all save yourselves, if you were to only understand that everything happens for a reason. Everything has a time limit - including relationships. Very few people begin their adult lives with their Twin Flames. Instead, you have a series of relationships with old soul mates from past lives, to work out karmic issues between you both. These are the passionate relationships which may last a few weeks or fifty years, but inevitably they end in sadness and bitterness! You feel betrayed and alone.

What is needed is a radical change of attitude! You need to honour the person, for the years or weeks of life lessons that they gave to you. To praise their good attributes and be understanding of their human faults. To recognise that all that can be learnt from the relationship - has been learnt. And that you are now, a better more knowledgeable person for it! Life hasn't ended, it's just changed and you are brave enough and wise enough, to deal with the change!

Many people fear being alone or feeling lonely. This is wrong! This time apart from another, gives you time for spiritual growth, to discover the real you - an angel in physical form, experiencing life on Earth. Your relationship breakup, is one of those lessons. Sad as it seems, it is just one in a long series of sad and pleasurable lessons, you asked to experience for growth!

Please, also understand that if your relationship has broken up - he/she was not your true soul mate, or else the relationship would have run smoothly for you both. You now, have the wonderful opportunity to go out and find your Twin Flame Partner and this is what you truly want, deep down.

Ask the Universe, God or Spirit to help you to get over your last relationship break up and find your true inner being, then eventually bring to you, your Twin Flame partner. Work on perfecting the inner spiritual you. Overcoming your emotional problems and blocks and your Twin Flame partner will appear, when you are ready.

Mother Mary's wise and loving advice, is inspiring, isn't it? And more importantly, it works! To give up your life, for the sadness you feel over the break up of a soul mate connection, when your Twin Flame is just waiting around the corner, is plain ludicrous!

For those of you who are feeling vengeful towards your ex partner, we suggest that each time you think of them- you send forgiveness, even if this is at first difficult to do. When you feel hatred or pain towards them, you actually strengthen the heart chords to them! Making the pain worse! Gently imagine those heart chords disappearing. There is a famous saying, "The best revenge, is to live a successful life!"

I (Robyn) have professionally hypnotised and past life regressed, hundreds of people in the last twenty years and every partner, was someone they had known in a past life and owed some karma (good or bad) to. Not one couple, involved a stranger or new soul. Many were soul mates not Twin Flames and this is why they had difficulties in their relationships.

Many depressed, suicidal people that I have counselled, have worked through their sadness and grief and later gone on to meet their Twin Flame Partner. How glad they were, that they had not given in to their suicidal feelings, of the time. So please, if you are feeling extremely depressed, seek professional help, overcome your emotional blocks and believe that in your Life Plan, you predetermined to have wondrous events, Divine Missions and a waiting Twin Flame partner - for it is true!

Our ebooks written with Spiritual guidance will help you with a greater understanding of your spiritual nature, Twin Flames and how to activate your inherent psychic gifts to aid your Life and World Plans. We invite you to read them.

Why has drug addiction become such a major problem on our planet in the last twenty years? Because the young Starseeds coming to Earth, are finding it so harsh living here that they turn to drugs such as marijuana, heroin, speed, crack etc to dull the experience.

Just as you would have morphine prescribed to you, to deaden the pain of the after-effects of a surgical operation, they are using drugs in the same way, to soften the effects of living through emotional, mental and spiritual pain, on Earth!

The "high" that they get temporarily from the drug, feels similar to the fifth dimensional feeling that they are used to, on the Pleiades. However there, they feel this naturally and don't take drugs to achieve it. This feeling can be reproduced through meditation, spiritual exercises and raising the "light body" up to the fifth dimension on Earth - it's just that they have forgotten how to do it! Others suffer from so much apathy, that they are just too tired and inactive to try to achieve it!

On the Pleiades however, this high feeling is appropriate, because it isn't addictive and doesn't cost huge amounts of money to achieve, it doesn't ruin the mind and body, it doesn't destroy relationships, isn't socially abhorrent and isn't illegal! On Earth it is and worse! On Earth drugs destroy your life and ruin your plans for your Divine Mission. The addiction stops you achieving your Life Plans and World Plans and often ends your life abruptly, throwing your soul into confusion.

Many addicts who fatally overdose, find themselves in special rehab type medical wards, in Heaven, spending many eons overcoming their last trip to Earth. And then incarnating back to achieve what they failed at this lifetime. Not a wonderful scenario!

Suicide caused by accidental overdoses of drugs is very common, as the type of person who makes and sells the drugs, is not caring of the user's body reaction. They just want money from you. They don't care if the ingredients in the drug, are toxic or not! But they are storing up immeasurable negative karma for themselves, which must be repaid in future lives. Karma is the most Divine method of justice, ever established. You make it and you can't escape it!

"There is a spiritual reason behind drug addiction. Many sensitive souls cannot stand the harsh vibrations of planet Earth. The pain they feel from negative relationships, physical suffering, mental confusion and emotional despair is real to them! Others may look at their lives and say, "He or she has no reason to be a drug addict. Their life is better than mine!"

But remember, you have not lived their lives, felt their suffering or been confused by the unfamiliar vibrations around them. The old Indian saying, " to understand me, walk a mile in my moccasins" is very apt. You can't see the pain or feel the inner turmoil, but it is there.

Many of these souls are new to the Earth plane, they are not old souls. They are becoming accustomed to it's vibration, which is much lower than where they have previously resided. To deaden the pain of being here - they take drugs.

The drugs, at first, give them a temporary "high" feeling of contentment. They can now bear being here! Then of course, they become addicted to the drug and it causes it's own problems of violence, sickness, bad work record, broken relationships, poverty and disillusionment. The pain they tried at first to avoid, becomes far worse than they ever imagined!

By understanding, that you are a very confused angelic being, who has been initially, very brave to incarnate to Earth. Now however, you don't like the experience and you think that the drugs will make the experience easier to live with. But has it? No! What you need to do is regain the bravery that you once felt.

Realise, that you came to Earth with a spiritual mission, that has still to be fulfilled and live that mission! When you begin to do this, you will no longer need the crutch of drugs, to get you through the day. As you band with other Light workers or Starseeds who are on a similar mission, you will feel uplifted and contented. Being here, will become a joy not a trial!"

Sananda's words are very true. When we lose our way, on our Life plan and begin to believe that the physical and materialistic life is all that there is, we often become very disheartened and turn to drugs, as a way of enduring the unbearable. But, you are stronger and more wise than that! You instinctively know that you are special and you are here for a very Divine Mission. The time has come for you to rediscover it!

Helpful Organisations - We suggest that you visit an N.A. meeting for emotional and mental support, while you are recovering. Narcotics Anonymous and other recovery groups, usually hold, as their first principle, a belief in a higher being - God. As a Starseed, you can use this principle, to help you recover, in a New Age manner. Find out as much as you can about the real spiritual side of yourself. Discover your Life and World Plans (see earlier) and group with others to work out your Divine Mission. You are here for a purpose.

Finding aims in life, that are higher than merely existing or being addicted to drugs, is what you really need. Sit and meditate. Ask your Higher Self and angelic Guides to help you to give up the drugs and to find your Divine purpose in life.

Begin to dress, act and speak in a positive manner. Be truthful about your drug addiction, but treat it as if it is diabetes or short sightedness - restrictive, but not fatal. See yourself as an angel who has lost his/her way, for a short time, but now, is back on track. Enjoy the challenge of being here on Earth - remember you chose it! Now live it with courage!

You chose to experience drug addiction, for a short time. Why? Perhaps, so that you could have empathy for others who are addicted to substances. Possibly, your World Plan, involves helping others with similar problems. You understand the disease and cure don't you? Now is the time to share it with others.

Also, it is possible that you are patterning. Following a similar life pattern to a past life, where you also succumbed to drugs, to avoid the harsh realities of life. Break the pattern now! Don't repeat it in future lives.

Your depression is linked, to the problems your drug addiction is causing in your life and because you haven't truly discovered your real spiritual nature and Life Purpose. Begin to discover and live them and your drug addiction, will disappear. It is a wake-up signal to you, that you are off your chosen spiritual path, not a life sentence. Get back on it with renewed strengths and insights!

 Our free and low cost ebooks will help you with a greater understanding of your spiritual nature and teach you how to activate your inherent psychic gifts, to aid your Life and World Plans. We invite you to read them.

Society constantly indoctrinates us to the idea that to live a successful life, you have to have a high powered job, lots of fame and masses of money. The actual job is not so important - you can be a paper clip manufacturer, pornographer, doctor or actor, but the richest person to die - wins!

Wins what, you may well ask? Certainly not spiritual enlightenment, certainly not contentment, certainly not loving friends and happy family members or self-satisfaction. Cold hard cash is not much good to you in the grave. You can't take it with you. Or as Spirit has often said, "What is made in the 3^rd dimension, stays in the 3^rd dimension!"

Why are some people even driven to suicide and deep depression, over their employment failures? Because they don't truly understand who they are and why they are here on Earth and generally, it is not to grind away from 9 to 5 to make a lot of money!

For instance, take the case of a friend Sam, an accountant, who a few years ago often came to me complaining that he hated his work. He had on- going feuds with half the staff and resented going into an unfulfilling job, each day. I advised him to sit quietly and meditate and tell the Universe that he wanted a positive change from his work.

A few weeks later he came to me upset, he had lost his job and been given a large redundancy package. Instead of being happy, he was unhappy! He hadn't thought the Universe would take him so literally! I reminded him of his dislike of that work place and how it was making him physically and mentally ill. I told him to view his redundancy, as a bid for freedom! To have extra money and time to set up a life, that he wanted! Lucky Sam!

I asked him, what he really wanted to do in life. His secret dreams. He told me that he had always wanted to work with cattle - to be a cowboy!

We discussed his financial situation and I advised him to settle for something a little more realistic than a cowboy, while still achieving his dream and using his accountancy skills. He searched the work ads for rural areas and took on a part time job, as an accountant, in a small country town. He rented a small ranch and moved his family there. He bought a small herd of cattle and enjoyed working with them, several days a week. He is now a very contented man. So much so, that he is now opening his small ranch to poor children from the city to come and stay for holidays. He is living his dream in a loving, but realistic manner.

There is nothing stopping you, from sitting down and deciding what you want from your life. Resurrect your old dreams, tone them down a little and begin living them! Enjoy your life!

Students often feel very depressed when they fail in examinations or can't immediately get a job, after graduating, but you may have well written this into your Life Plan. Don't see this experience as a failure, but just one of life's strange occurrences. Perhaps, you aren't meant to go into the profession that your family have picked out for you. Maybe, you're meant to explore the artistic and musical side of your personality. You are a multi-faceted being - not just preordained for one job, one professional path! Give yourself time to find out what you want to do!

Don't see the ending of a job, as a disaster, but as a serendipitous release for you, to find your true vocation in life. Who says that you have to have the biggest house, flashiest car and lots of money to be happy? Plan your future to do the things - you want to do!

Move to the seaside, go on a cruise, travel cheaply, grow organic vegetables, play music, study, mind children, keep pets…whatever you love!