Coping with depression, suicidal thoughts and apathy, by finding a

• Chapter One - Are You Depressed? A short quiz.
• Chapter Two - Starseed Sadness.
• Chapter Three - Light Worker Mid-life Blues.
• Chapter Four - What makes you Depressed and how to Release it forever! Drugs, Alcohol, Broken relationships, Work and Failure, Sexual problems, Illness, Loneliness and Death.
• Chapter Five - Family and Friends.
• Chapter Six - Walk Ins - A different kind of suicide. NDE's
• Appendage - Our free ebook links and other links

If you are reading this book, it is highly likely that you feel very depressed, apathetic with life or even suicidal at this time. Everyone feels like this at some time during their lives, but most people choose not to suicide and leave this current life, but instead stay and find a new direction and purpose for living. This is what we hope to offer you, purpose for living, a reason for remaining here in the human body and a new uplifting direction for you to take in life. No matter how impossible this may seem to you at this time, please keep reading our book to the end! After all this could be the most important information you have ever read, that is truly relevant to you!

Whether you are a Starseed, a young person born since 1971 who is confused about their purpose here on Earth or a Light Worker pre 1971 who is thoroughly disillusioned with life or an person facing a life threatening illness or life trauma - please understand that there are reasons for the way you feel and there are practical and uplifting solutions to end your despair! Apathy on the other hand means that you feel very weary with life and unable to make any effort to make your life more interesting or positive. Apathy is often a result of depression.

Here is what one of the Ascended Masters, Mother Mary has said about depression -

"Tell my dear ones not to despair and that there is hope! Do not give into apathy, depression and fear. You can change your life around and create the life you want! You all have immense, undiscovered paranormal powers which can be reactivated and used to create a meaningful, contented life for yourselves. We in Spirit, are just a breath away from you and more than willing to help you. Contact us, pray to us, call us in your meditations, listen to us, feel our love. We will never desert you. Find your true purpose for incarnating - for there is one! You only have to search and find it!

And do not give into thoughts of suicide. For I tell you this - those who take their lives prematurely, before their divine missions are fulfilled, almost certainly, return immediately into the form of a new born baby. Then they have to go through the arduous task of growing up and becoming adults again, in similar surroundings and WITH THE SAME SET OF EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS! So you can't circumvent your missions or dodge your life lessons, no matter how many times you opt out of life by suicide. So why not stay and live out this life as you planned. Believe me, dear ones, it will become better. You will find love and contentment. You can make a difference!"

 If there is an external event such as a death in the family, diagnosis of a life threatening disease, end of a romance or job redundancy, that has caused this depression, we urge you to seek short term medical or psychiatric assistance, to deal with this traumatic event. The mind and body are often very resilient and in time, your normal positive nature will return.

However, if there is no specific external event causing your depression and you have ticked more than two questions with a YES and the depression has lasted longer than several weeks, we suggest that you consult a doctor, psychologist or psychiatrist to help you with your depression, as it may be caused by some chemical imbalance within your body or deep seated emotional trauma.

If you are currently taking antidepressant drugs or involved in orthodox treatment of any kind, we suggest that you continue with these in the short term. There are also, many web sites devoted to helping depressed people. We will list them at the end of this book. However, we hope that the answers, we will give you in this book, will help you to look on your condition in a totally different way and help you to create a more contented, joyful life for yourself. So that you no longer feel that "I don't want to be here!"

 The Baby Boomers came to Earth after the Second World War, to bring in peaceful vibrations, to help stabilise the planet and avert nuclear war and active vibrations, to cause radical changes in the social setup. Many of these goals have been successfully attained - women's rights, peace groups, children's rights, more charities and world wide assistance schemes, fewer wars and conflicts, environmental issues tackled and freer religious and spiritual beliefs explored and integrated into society.

But also, the Baby Boomers have experienced divorce on an unprecedented scale, domestic and international changes, such as many women working full-time after marriage and major changes in sexual attitudes and child raising. The social expectations, ethics and opinions that they set out with, in the fifties and sixties, have often been completely turned around in the 2000's. No wonder, they're feeling so confused!

Fifty years ago, at the age of fifty or sixty, most men and women were still married to the same first husband and wife. They were grandparents who lived conventional lives. The woman worked within the home and accepted being a matronly, middle-aged home maker, while the male earned the income, drove the car, knew a little about politics and drank the beer. Both looked forward to retirement and attended church regularly, each Sunday.

How many people live in this way today? Very few. Yet, the Light Workers have had to adjust to these great social changes, with very little help or sympathy from the outside world.

Today, a fifty year old woman is not considered old, like former generations. She is expected to be fashionable, healthy, knowledgeable about international events. She holds down a professional job and often has to deal with household chores, formerly delegated to the male of the household. She is expected to drive a car, travel overseas on her own, supervise auto and household repairs, visit the gym regularly, be sexually active, balance her finances, look after the needs of her children and elderly parents and pursue her own hobbies and religious interests.

 Many middle aged women have discovered that by fifty, they have not achieved the worldly or emotional success, that was promised to them, in their youth. Others have achieved the big house, new car, overseas holidays and caring spouse and yet, still feel dissatisfied. No wonder, that she feels tired, worn out, confused and depressed! It's not surprising that many middle-aged women turn to alcohol, prescribed or illegal drugs and acquire addictions to food or develop physical or mental problems.

We understand that you are feeling overwhelmed with it all - particularly if you are alone and confused. But, what we want to tell you is- that it can be sorted out! We can tell you how to find a purpose behind it all and how to design a better life for yourself!

 

 

We are not forgetting the Light Worker Male, who was born before 1970 and who is most probably a Baby Boomer. He too, is finding it a confusing, depressing world. He may have been a teenager in the 1950's or 60's. The films of that era, depict the average macho guy, that he was intended to become, as he aged. The male leads of that time were often like Marlon Brando, in "The Wild One" - rebellious, macho leaders with little respect for women. Or seducers like Rock Hudson who displayed very yang masculine traits, to their attractive yin female costars, like Doris Day or Debbie Reynolds.

 

A true macho man in the sixties, chased the woman he desired, married and mated with her and raised several children, while she stayed happily at home, vacuuming and getting ready to present him with a martini, when he returned from work at night. He made all the important decisions in life and she adored him for it. How times have changed!

The confused Baby Boomer male has had to come to terms with Women's Liberation, frozen dinners, equality in the marriage, rebellious children, female coworkers, demands on him to be physically fit, fashionable and sexually knowledgeable. Almost half the marriages in this era have ended in divorce and social and religious aspects of life, including sexual partnerships, have changed dramatically.

 

 

Many middle aged males have discovered that by fifty, they have not had the worldly success that was promised to them, in their youth. Others have achieved the big house, new car, overseas holidays or trophy wife and yet, still feel dissatisfied. They feel confused and depressed! Many Light Worker males have tried to deal with this confusion, by turning to alcohol, prescribed or illegal drugs and developed addictions to food or develop physical or mental problems.

We understand that you are probably feeling overwhelmed with it all - particularly if you are alone and confused. But, what we want to tell you is, that it can be sorted out! We can tell you how to find a purpose behind it all and how to go on to design a better life for yourself!

 First you must realise, why you are here on Earth? And guess what? It's not to be a material success! Despite what you have been conditioned to believe all your life - the richest person to die, doesn't win! Success doesn't buy you happiness and all the money in the world won't make you feel fulfilled and spiritually uplifted. Like the Beatles sang, "Money can't buy you love!"

 

To progress with your life you have to dump once and for all, these outmoded concepts.

 

Unfortunately, the governments and major religions of this planet, want you to believe that these are your prime aims in life - to be materially successful, nationalistic, ego driven and slot nicely into society, where you won't think for yourself, behave in a radical manner or be a threat to status quo around you. If you get depressed and suicide, rather than turn rebellious and lead your own life - they don't really care! They don't want you to know who you really are and why you're really here on Earth, because it doesn't suit their own purposes for you to be informed!

 

You are a spirit in human form, not a human with a small, diminutive spirit or soul. This life is one of many that you have experienced. You come to Earth to learn about yourself and others, through life experiences and lessons. Everything that happens to you happens for a purpose. There are no coincidences, no accidents and no failures. Life may seem unfair, but it is not. You asked to experience everything that happens to you, good or bad - for a higher reason. The divorce has a reason, the illness, a reason, the unmanageable kids, a reason, the redundancy at work, a reason .. Do you get the idea?

 

Now, if you are normal, by now you are saying - "No way! I love myself. I wouldn't ask for bad things to happen to me! I'm not a masochist!" Right? We've all felt like this at first. But like it or not, this is what we ask for. Why? Because, we learn quicker and more thoroughly, through pain.

 

Think about it, before you reject it. You can tell a small child, a hundred times, not to touch the hot fire and fully explain why and even reward him for not touching it. But unfortunately, one little burn will teach him forever, not to touch a fire again. (I am not advocating burning your child, by the way!) But aren't you the same? How many times did your mother and father talk to you about the "evils of alcohol"? But one binge and hangover, showed you what they meant, very quickly.

 

Of course some people are very slow learners and so the lesson and punishment (self inflicted) is repeated, until one day a light bulb goes off in your head and you suddenly realise - alcohol, drugs, bad men or women, speeding, being arrogant or too submissive - is bad for you!

 

Mostly you learn lessons, that somehow you have dodged or not learned adequately, in past lives. If you were a noble man or woman, arrogant and cruel to the peasants, in medieval France, you will find that you often return as a poor person, in this current life. But now you're in the USA or Australia, oppressed by the very same peasants! You can't escape your own karma! So we advise you to get your act together in this current life or you will take those negative karmic actions into future lives and have to relive them over!

 

Another reason that unpleasant things happen to you, is to wake you up! The sacking at work, the end of a romance or the illness, all make you stop and think - what is life about and where am I going? Quo Vadis? Your spiritual guides want you to question everything! They want you to discover the spirit within you and begin living a more spiritual, uplifting, fulfilling life!

We suggest that you read our books and ebooks free and low cost on our website titled THE SECRET RULES OF LIFE, 100 QUESTIONS AND RELATIONSHIPS IN THE 21^ST CENTURY for more details about your spiritual nature and how to cope with modern life.

 

 

The important thing is - not to give up. To realise, that you have incarnated to Earth with a special mission. You have just been distracted for the last fifty years or so, from your true purpose for being here! You came to increase your own special spiritual light and knowledge and you came to raise the light of the planet. You came to bring in the young starseeds, as your children and you came to be grandparents to the special love children.

 

Your generation has made great changes, that have benefited the Earth and will continue to do so. You can find contentment, by joining with others, to further promote these changes. In other words, give your life meaning! This can all be done with spiritual guidance from the Ascended Masters, Angels and Guides. Now, isn't that worth living for! Please read this article that was printed in an Australian New Age Magazine, by the Abbotts. You may find that it relates to you!

 

 

Have you ever said to yourself, ‘Why is this happening to me? What did I ever do to deserve this!’

 

As a counsellor, I have listened to the complaints of many hundreds of people whose lives have been touched by tragedies and problems, which they feel, are happening through no fault of their own. They consider themselves, good, law abiding people of principle, who give to charities, believe in God and try to bring their children up in the most appropriate and loving ways and yet, bad things still happen to them. It seems, bad things do happen to good people.

 

However, looking more deeply into the issues that plague these well intentioned, but bewildered people, I have inevitably found, that these so called tragedies and problems all have deeper spiritual messages behind them. I’ve discovered, that negative situations do not happen randomly and for no apparently constructive purpose. And yes, there is always an important lesson behind every catastrophe and misfortune. More importantly, when you can begin to understand why the lesson was sent and what you are meant to do with it, then inevitably, the harsh problems begin to quickly disappear.

 

A client of mine, Susan, is a typical example of this situation. Susan is an intelligent, red-haired, attractive and well dressed woman in her mid forties. Divorced with two teenage boys, she works as a secretary with a local legal firm. She is a great organiser and has been invaluable at her Spiritual Centre, with organising fund - raising Psychic Fairs, which are held regularly. She is happy to work long hours voluntarily and has the fortunate ability of being able to wheedle help and donations out of the most unlikely people. To most people, Susan appears to be fully in control of her life.

 

Yet, Susan came to me one day, in tears of despair. Her eldest son Martin, had the week before, been arrested by the police for dealing in and using heavy drugs and at her yearly breast x ray, the doctors had discovered a lump, which would have to be surgically removed and checked for cancerous cells. She naturally enough, felt very stressed and distraught.

 

‘I’m a good person, I go to church, I believe in God, I love my children. Why has this happened to me! Why do bad things happen to me!’ Susan sobbed into her handkerchief. Her shoulders bowed with her burden. The normally confident, assertive woman had become a confused, resentful child.

 

She told me a little about her life. She had a favoured childhood, living in the country with loving, supportive parents and many friends. She had been popular at college and married an up and coming, handsome and financially well off, young man, Tom, who was training as a pharmacist. Her marriage had been happy, until in it’s twelfth year, Tom unexpectedly asked for a divorce. He had fallen in love with one of the young assistants in his pharmacy and wanted to marry her.

 

Susan was shocked and hurt, but managed to agree to a reasonably, amicable divorce and was able to live quite well, with her two sons, on her divorce settlement. Later, she decided to do a secretarial course and reentered the workforce. Her life over the last six years had been busy and seemingly pleasant. She had bought herself a small, pretty cottage and spent many hours in the garden planting and weeding. She enjoyed the company of her two children and her involvement with the Spiritual Church. I asked her to describe her usual attitude towards her life and she answered thoughtfully,’ Active and happy’.

 

Now, however her life had been rocked by the events of the last week.

‘I don’t understand what I’ve done wrong.’ she admitted to me tearfully. ‘I’ve tried to live a good life!’

Susan was surprised, when I asked her what she thought her life was truly about. Why had she decided to incarnate at this time? Although, she had some ideas of spiritual principles, her actual philosophy was hazy.

‘I suppose to do good. To help others.’ She answered hesitantly.

‘But, what about your own personal spiritual growth?’ I asked her.

She admitted, that she had very little time for actual contact with Spirit, meditation or spiritual reading or seminars.

‘I’d love to have more contact with Spirit, but, I have too busy a life.’ she admitted truthfully.

 I knew that Susan had attended a four part course on Contacting your Higher Self, ( the more spiritual advanced part of you, that resides on the higher dimensions), the previous Summer and I asked her, if she would like her Higher Self to help her, during our counselling session. She readily agreed to this and mentally asked Higher Self to come in and help her.

 

I told her then, what I have told many other overly active people - that Spirit will not run beside you, trying to make contact! You must slow down and take time to make spiritual contact, meditate and examine what is happening in your current life.

 

We all incarnate with wonderful expectations of the tremendous spiritual growth we will make, in this lifetime. Yet, most of us only accomplish a small percentage of our spiritual aims. Why? Because we get so caught up in third dimensional life - family, work, sports activities, hobbies etc that we allow very, little time for our spiritual development.

 

Of course on the higher levels, before we incarnate down to Earth, we realise that we may forget why we have incarnated -' To spiritually perfect ourselves and raise the spiritual understanding of others’, so we purposely plan and place, supposedly negative situations in our lives at certain intervals, to help us ‘wake up’ to our original reasons for incarnating.

 

It would be wonderful, if we could be roused to wakefulness, by happy, loving incidents in our lives, but unfortunately most people only become aware and question their existence, when unpleasant things happen to them! As they say, ‘the churches are always full, during wartime!’

 

I asked Susan to try to look with detachment, at the two incidents which had caused her so much stress and unhappiness. Her son’s problem with drugs, ultimately was not her problem. It was his. Naturally, as a mother, she was distressed at his actions and should offer comfort and support, but it was Martin’s problem, (no doubt a wake up reminder from his own Spiritual Higher Self, to make him examine his life). We discussed, how she could spend more time with Martin, in a companionable, but not critical manner and how she could help him find professional drug counselling, for his addiction. Susan was encouraged, not to feel guilty about Martin’s addiction. It was his choice and his actions, not her own.

 

Under a light hypnosis, I asked Susan, with the help of her Higher Self, to look at the reasons for her panic about the lump in her breast and where the problem had originated. As I had suspected, it was an incident, preplanned before this lifetime and sent to her, to make her temporarily cease her overly-active lifestyle and make her sit down calmly and examine where her life was heading and what plans, she needed to make, for her spiritual and personal growth.

 

Often, people will introduce a severe disease or accident into their lives, just to get some breathing space, time out, to fully discover who they are and what they are here to accomplish.

 

Personal emotional pain in life, can also result in physical problems and under hypnosis, Susan revealed that the divorce and rejection, by her former husband Tom, had accumulated in her breast and resulted in the lump forming. I suggested that she consciously, begin to forgive Tom, ask that the lump be removed slowly by Spirit and in future, begin to release her emotional pain through words and thought, rather than submerging them, denying them and having them emerge eventually, as a physical medical problem.

 

Susan agreed and followed my exercise to release her grief in that area, forgive Tom and began to make constructive spiritual plans for her future.

 

Susan began, by cutting her work time down to several days a week, allowing her more personal time for meditation, spiritual development and quality, family time with her two sons. She was able, to calmly discuss Martin’s drug addiction with him and he agreed to have drug counselling, from a local rehabilitation centre.

 

Susan’s biopsy showed that the lump was not malignant and now, that she is aware of allowing her emotions to be constructively released, she has not experienced any similar medical problems. Most importantly, now, when negative problems occur in her life, she begins to examine the cause behind them and not just give into despair and guilt.

 

She realises that life may still bring her the occasional bad incident, but, if she is constant with her spiritual growth and more connected with her personal Spirit Guides and Higher Self, then she has invaluable advice and help to guide her in her life.

 

Yes, bad things do happen to good people. But, they do so for a purposeful reason. No accident or illness, relationship breakdown or severe problem, happens randomly. It is sent for a reason. It is usually sent to wake you up - to who you really are! Spirit in human form, sent to do great, spiritual good for yourself and humanity, not a human with a spirit, content to do everyday material things. Wake up now and many of the major problems will disappear from your life! Love and Light. The Abbotts"

 

 Okay, Now you may be saying, "But my problem is not the same as Susan's!" We understand that everyone has unique blocks and problems to look at and conquer in this lifetime. But you must realise that before you incarnated - YOU ASKED FOR THEM!

 

This is always difficult for people to accept. Why would you ask for harsh lessons? Because in the Heavenly Realms, you are so much braver than you are here. There, you like challenges! That’s why you decided to incarnate this time on Earth, not on other different and amazing constellations, but because you wanted challenges. And you must admit, that you certainly are challenged on Earth!

 

But you also added, enough strength and courage to your mental, emotional and physical makeup, to help you overcome any obstacles, no matter how large or invasive. And you also added, deep within your being, all the spiritual gifts that you would need, to become a vibrant spiritually alive person. You just haven't accessed them yet. But they are waiting for you to discover them and change your life for the better!

 

The Baby Boomers are often very psychic and can easily be taught to reawaken their spiritual gifts, such as Spiritual Healing, seeing Auric Fields, cleansing Chakras, Astral Travelling, Manifestation of material objects, Communicating with Angels and much more! They just need to be shown how!

 

A little bit of effort can result in meeting similar people like yourself. Once you have formed a group, begin to develop your psychic talents and gifts and then use them for a higher intent!

An affirmation given to us by The Ascended Masters to say aloud, many times daily, which will help to activate the spiritual side of your nature is -

Lady Kwan Yin summed it up nicely, in one of her channelings to The Abbotts - "I would talk tonight of your thoughts. Your probably realise, as you are going now through the fourth dimension, how truly powerful your thoughts are! Your thoughts have great power behind them. In the past, when you thought about certain events they would manifest in time, but perhaps there would be years between the conception of the thought and the realisation of the thought. But now, you will find many things happening instantly, certainly much quicker.

And if you find yourself caught up with judgement, criticism, anger or fear, then meditate for a while in peace and look at yourself objectively. See that most negative acts that you commit on this Earth are committed through fear and that is because your ego feels that it is threatened. Your ego does not like anyone attempting to take its power, or to frighten, or hurt, or harm it in any way. If you can rise beyond the ego and see yourself as Spirit, you see the spirit is never harmed, never hurt by what happens on the Earth.

We hope that these inspirational words have touched your heart and given you new hope.

Love and Light The Abbotts.

 

Specific problems and uplifting solutions relating to Drug Abuse, Alcohol Abuse, Addictions, Relationships, Loneliness, Illness, Work, Sexual problems and Death will be given in the next chapter.

 

Every life problem is given to you for a reason. You are meant to explore the situation, make a choice to overcome it and win out successfully. Every time you win you become more spiritual and happy with life. You are meant to create the life that you want! Not what others dictate.

 

Often however, the problems seem to become insurmountable. They begin to control our whole lives, instead of being one small part of it. We think of them constantly, instead of relegating them to their proper place in our lives. We see our problems as huge obstacles and not little challenges. What is needed however, is a huge change of perspective!

 

By understanding why you are here on Earth and seeing the overview, you are able to develop a sense of humour about your problems. You see them as no different from learning to stand, walk or tie your shoe laces. They are small challenges, that you have deliberately decided to face and overcome in this lifetime. You understand that you have the mental, emotional and spiritual resources to easily overcome these problems and create the fulfilling life that you want!

"There is a spiritual reason behind alcoholism. Many sensitive souls cannot stand the harsh vibrations of planet Earth. The pain they feel from negative relationships, physical suffering, mental confusion and emotional despair, is real to them! Others may look at their lives and say, "He or she has no reason to be an alcoholic. Their life is better than mine!" But remember, you have not lived their lives, felt their suffering or been confused by the unfamiliar vibrations around them. The old Indian saying "walk a mile in my moccasins" is very apt. You can't see the pain or feel the inner turmoil, but it is there.

Many of these souls are new to the Earth plane, they are not old souls. They are becoming accustomed to it's vibration, which is much lower than where they have previously resided. To deaden the pain of being here - they drink alcohol. The alcohol at first gives them a temporary "high" feeling of contentment. They can now stand being here! Then of course they become addicted to the alcohol and it causes it's own problems of violence, sickness, bad work record, broken relationships, poverty and disillusionment. The pain they tried at first to avoid becomes far worse than they ever imagined.

Please give them your compassion and understanding. They did not take the alcohol, to become bad and broke, but instead to make life bearable.

By understanding that you are a very confused angelic being who has been initially, very brave to incarnate to Earth. Now however, you don't like the experience and you think that the alcohol will make the experience more easy to live with. But has it? No! What you need to do is regain the bravery you once felt. Realise that you came to Earth with a spiritual mission that has still to be fulfilled and live that mission!

When you begin to do this, you will no longer need the crutch of alcohol to get you through the day. As you band with other Light Workers or Starseeds who are on a similar mission, you will feel uplifted and contented. Being here, will become a joy not a trial!"

Sananda's words, are very true. When we lose our way on our Life Plan and begin to believe that the physical and materialistic life is all there is, we usually become very disheartened and turn to alcohol or drugs, as a way of bearing the unbearable.

Helpful Organisations - We suggest that you visit an A.A. meeting for emotional and mental support while you are recovering. Alcoholics Anonymous and other recovery groups, usually hold as their first principle, a belief in a higher being - God. As a Lightworker, you can use this principle to help you in a New Age manner. Find out as much as you can about the real spiritual side of yourself. Discover your Life and World Plans (see earlier) and group with others, to work out your Divine Mission. You are here for a purpose.

Finding aims in life which are higher than merely existing or being addicted to alcohol, is what you need. Sit and meditate. Ask your Higher Self and angelic Guides to help you to give up the alcohol and to find your Divine Purpose in life.

Begin to dress, act and speak in a positive manner. Be truthful about your alcoholism, but treat it as if it is diabetes or short-sightedness - restrictive, but not fatal. See yourself as an angel who has lost his way for a short time, but now is back on track. Enjoy the challenge of being here on Earth - remember you chose it!

You chose to experience alcoholism for a short time. Why? Perhaps so that you could have empathy for others who are addicted to substances. Perhaps, your World Plan involves helping others with similar problems. You understand the disease don't you? Once you have cured yourself, share the information with others!

Also, it is possible that you are patterning. Following a similar life pattern to a past life, where you also succumbed to alcohol, to avoid the harsh realities of life. Break the pattern now! Develop a joyful life for yourself, without alcohol. It can be done!

Our ebooks will help you with a greater understanding of your spiritual nature and how to activate your inherent psychic gifts, to aid your Life and World Plans. We invite you to read them.

Your depression is linked to the problems that your alcohol addiction is causing in your life and because you haven't truly discovered your real spiritual nature and Life Purpose. Begin to discover and live your spiritual Life Plan and your alcoholism will disappear. Your alcohol addiction is a wake up signal to you, that you are off your chosen spiritual path, not a life sentence. Get back on track and create a meaningful life for yourself!

The ending of a love affair can be devastating to many people. They become severely depressed and often suicidal. If you have recently experienced the ending of a long term relationship, such as marriage through divorce or a short term passionate love affair, that has left you feeling shattered, we acknowledge that it is healthy for you to mourn the ending of this treasured relationship.

But, we would say that from a spiritual aspect, the parting - was meant to be! Not only was it meant to be, but you chose for it to happen - before you incarnated to Earth. You wrote the relationship and it's eventual ending, into your Life Plan. Not only that, but your lost lover, also agreed to love you for a time, teach you certain lessons and then depart! It's just, that you've both forgotten the pact. And the pact was made, for the higher good of both of you!

"Oh, dear ones, the pain you could all save yourselves, if you were to only understand that everything happens for a reason. Everything has a time limit - including relationships. Very few people begin their adult lives with their Twin Flames. Instead, you have a series of relationships with old soul mates from past lives, to work out karmic issues between you both. These are the passionate relationships which may last a few weeks or fifty years, but inevitably they end in sadness and bitterness! You feel betrayed and alone.

What is needed is a radical change of attitude! You need to honour the person, for the years or weeks of life lessons that they gave to you. To praise their good attributes and be understanding of their human faults. To recognise that all that can be learnt from the relationship - has been learnt. And that you are now, a better more knowledgeable person for it! Life hasn't ended, it's just changed and you are brave enough and wise enough, to deal with the change!

Many people fear being alone or feeling lonely. This is wrong! This time apart from another, gives you time for spiritual growth, to discover the real you - an angel in physical form, experiencing life on Earth. Your relationship breakup, is one of those lessons. Sad as it seems, it is just one in a long series of sad and pleasurable lessons, you asked to experience for growth!

Please, also understand that if your relationship has broken up - he/she was not your true soul mate, or else the relationship would have run smoothly for you both. You now, have the wonderful opportunity to go out and find your Twin Flame Partner and this is what you truly want, deep down.

Ask the Universe, God or Spirit to help you to get over your last relationship break up and find your true inner being, then eventually bring to you, your Twin Flame partner. Work on perfecting the inner spiritual you. Overcoming your emotional problems and blocks and your Twin Flame partner will appear, when you are ready.

Mother Mary's wise and loving advice, is inspiring, isn't it? And more importantly, it works! To give up your life, for the sadness you feel over the break up of a soul mate connection, when your Twin Flame is just waiting around the corner, is plain ludicrous!

For those of you who are feeling vengeful towards your ex partner, we suggest that each time you think of them- you send forgiveness, even if this is at first difficult to do. When you feel hatred or pain towards them, you actually strengthen the heart chords to them! Making the pain worse! Gently imagine those heart chords disappearing. There is a famous saying, "The best revenge, is to live a successful life!"

I (Robyn) have professionally hypnotised and past life regressed, hundreds of people in the last twenty years and every partner, was someone they had known in a past life and owed some karma (good or bad) to. Not one couple, involved a stranger or new soul. Many were soul mates not Twin Flames and this is why they had difficulties in their relationships.

Many depressed, suicidal people that I have counselled, have worked through their sadness and grief and later gone on to meet their Twin Flame Partner. How glad they were, that they had not given in to their suicidal feelings, of the time. So please, if you are feeling extremely depressed, seek professional help, overcome your emotional blocks and believe that in your Life Plan, you predetermined to have wondrous events, Divine Missions and a waiting Twin Flame partner - for it is true!

Our low cost books and ebooks written with Spiritual guidance, will help you with a greater understanding of your spiritual nature, Twin Flames and how to activate your inherent psychic gifts to aid your Life and World Plans. We invite you to read them.

Why has drug addiction become such a major problem on our planet in the last twenty years? Because the young Starseeds coming to Earth, are finding it so harsh living here that they turn to drugs such as marijuana, heroin, speed, crack etc to dull the experience.

Just as you would have morphine prescribed to you, to deaden the pain of the after-effects of a surgical operation, they are using drugs in the same way, to soften the effects of living through emotional, mental and spiritual pain, on Earth!

The "high" that they get temporarily from the drug, feels similar to the fifth dimensional feeling that they are used to, on the Pleiades. However there, they feel this naturally and don't take drugs to achieve it. This feeling can be reproduced through meditation, spiritual exercises and raising the "light body" up to the fifth dimension on Earth - it's just that they have forgotten how to do it! Others suffer from so much apathy, that they are just too tired and inactive to try to achieve it!

On the Pleiades however, this high feeling is appropriate, because it isn't addictive and doesn't cost huge amounts of money to achieve, it doesn't ruin the mind and body, it doesn't destroy relationships, isn't socially abhorrent and isn't illegal! On Earth it is and worse! On Earth drugs destroy your life and ruin your plans for your Divine Mission. The addiction stops you achieving your Life Plans and World Plans and often ends your life abruptly, throwing your soul into confusion.

Many addicts who fatally overdose, find themselves in special rehab type medical wards, in Heaven, spending many eons overcoming their last trip to Earth. And then incarnating back to achieve what they failed at this lifetime. Not a wonderful scenario!

Suicide caused by accidental overdoses of drugs is very common, as the type of person who makes and sells the drugs, is not caring of the user's body reaction. They just want money from you. They don't care if the ingredients in the drug, are toxic or not! But they are storing up immeasurable negative karma for themselves, which must be repaid in future lives. Karma is the most Divine method of justice, ever established. You make it and you can't escape it!

"There is a spiritual reason behind drug addiction. Many sensitive souls cannot stand the harsh vibrations of planet Earth. The pain they feel from negative relationships, physical suffering, mental confusion and emotional despair is real to them! Others may look at their lives and say, "He or she has no reason to be a drug addict. Their life is better than mine!"

But remember, you have not lived their lives, felt their suffering or been confused by the unfamiliar vibrations around them. The old Indian saying, " to understand me, walk a mile in my moccasins" is very apt. You can't see the pain or feel the inner turmoil, but it is there.

Many of these souls are new to the Earth plane, they are not old souls. They are becoming accustomed to it's vibration, which is much lower than where they have previously resided. To deaden the pain of being here - they take drugs.

The drugs, at first, give them a temporary "high" feeling of contentment. They can now bear being here! Then of course, they become addicted to the drug and it causes it's own problems of violence, sickness, bad work record, broken relationships, poverty and disillusionment. The pain they tried at first to avoid, becomes far worse than they ever imagined!

By understanding, that you are a very confused angelic being, who has been initially, very brave to incarnate to Earth. Now however, you don't like the experience and you think that the drugs will make the experience easier to live with. But has it? No! What you need to do is regain the bravery that you once felt.

Realise, that you came to Earth with a spiritual mission, that has still to be fulfilled and live that mission! When you begin to do this, you will no longer need the crutch of drugs, to get you through the day. As you band with other Light workers or Starseeds who are on a similar mission, you will feel uplifted and contented. Being here, will become a joy not a trial!"

Sananda's words are very true. When we lose our way, on our Life plan and begin to believe that the physical and materialistic life is all that there is, we often become very disheartened and turn to drugs, as a way of enduring the unbearable. But, you are stronger and more wise than that! You instinctively know that you are special and you are here for a very Divine Mission. The time has come for you to rediscover it!

Helpful Organisations - We suggest that you visit an N.A. meeting for emotional and mental support, while you are recovering. Narcotics Anonymous and other recovery groups, usually hold, as their first principle, a belief in a higher being - God. As a Starseed, you can use this principle, to help you recover, in a New Age manner. Find out as much as you can about the real spiritual side of yourself. Discover your Life and World Plans (see earlier) and group with others to work out your Divine Mission. You are here for a purpose.

Finding aims in life, that are higher than merely existing or being addicted to drugs, is what you really need. Sit and meditate. Ask your Higher Self and angelic Guides to help you to give up the drugs and to find your Divine purpose in life.

Begin to dress, act and speak in a positive manner. Be truthful about your drug addiction, but treat it as if it is diabetes or short sightedness - restrictive, but not fatal. See yourself as an angel who has lost his/her way, for a short time, but now, is back on track. Enjoy the challenge of being here on Earth - remember you chose it! Now live it with courage!

You chose to experience drug addiction, for a short time. Why? Perhaps, so that you could have empathy for others who are addicted to substances. Possibly, your World Plan, involves helping others with similar problems. You understand the disease and cure don't you? Now is the time to share it with others.

Also, it is possible that you are patterning. Following a similar life pattern to a past life, where you also succumbed to drugs, to avoid the harsh realities of life. Break the pattern now! Don't repeat it in future lives.

Your depression is linked, to the problems your drug addiction is causing in your life and because you haven't truly discovered your real spiritual nature and Life Purpose. Begin to discover and live them and your drug addiction, will disappear. It is a wake-up signal to you, that you are off your chosen spiritual path, not a life sentence. Get back on it with renewed strengths and insights!

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Society constantly indoctrinates us to the idea that to live a successful life, you have to have a high powered job, lots of fame and masses of money. The actual job is not so important - you can be a paper clip manufacturer, pornographer, doctor or actor, but the richest person to die - wins!

Wins what, you may well ask? Certainly not spiritual enlightenment, certainly not contentment, certainly not loving friends and happy family members or self-satisfaction. Cold hard cash is not much good to you in the grave. You can't take it with you. Or as Spirit has often said, "What is made in the 3^rd dimension, stays in the 3^rd dimension!"

Why are some people even driven to suicide and deep depression, over their employment failures? Because they don't truly understand who they are and why they are here on Earth and generally, it is not to grind away from 9 to 5 to make a lot of money!

For instance, take the case of a friend Sam, an accountant, who a few years ago often came to me complaining that he hated his work. He had on- going feuds with half the staff and resented going into an unfulfilling job, each day. I advised him to sit quietly and meditate and tell the Universe that he wanted a positive change from his work.

A few weeks later he came to me upset, he had lost his job and been given a large redundancy package. Instead of being happy, he was unhappy! He hadn't thought the Universe would take him so literally! I reminded him of his dislike of that work place and how it was making him physically and mentally ill. I told him to view his redundancy, as a bid for freedom! To have extra money and time to set up a life, that he wanted! Lucky Sam!

I asked him, what he really wanted to do in life. His secret dreams. He told me that he had always wanted to work with cattle - to be a cowboy!

We discussed his financial situation and I advised him to settle for something a little more realistic than a cowboy, while still achieving his dream and using his accountancy skills. He searched the work ads for rural areas and took on a part time job, as an accountant, in a small country town. He rented a small ranch and moved his family there. He bought a small herd of cattle and enjoyed working with them, several days a week. He is now a very contented man. So much so, that he is now opening his small ranch to poor children from the city to come and stay for holidays. He is living his dream in a loving, but realistic manner.

There is nothing stopping you, from sitting down and deciding what you want from your life. Resurrect your old dreams, tone them down a little and begin living them! Enjoy your life!

Students often feel very depressed when they fail in examinations or can't immediately get a job, after graduating, but you may have well written this into your Life Plan. Don't see this experience as a failure, but just one of life's strange occurrences. Perhaps, you aren't meant to go into the profession that your family have picked out for you. Maybe, you're meant to explore the artistic and musical side of your personality. You are a multi-faceted being - not just preordained for one job, one professional path! Give yourself time to find out what you want to do!

Don't see the ending of a job, as a disaster, but as a serendipitous release for you, to find your true vocation in life. Who says that you have to have the biggest house, flashiest car and lots of money to be happy? Plan your future to do the things - you want to do!

Move to the seaside, go on a cruise, travel cheaply, grow organic vegetables, play music, study, mind children, keep pets…whatever you love!

A friend, Sally, took ten years to get her degree in Psychology. She did it part time, while she raised three small sons, at home. As she put it - "If I start now when I'm thirty- five, by the time I'm forty five, I'll be fully qualified. If I don't start now, at forty five, I'll have no degree and be packing shelves at the local supermarket!" Time doesn't matter but attitude does!

Once you realise, that you are an angel in human form, setting up these experiences for yourself and it doesn't really matter if you win or lose financially, it's what you learn from the experience that matters - then your whole perspective changes! After all, how many happy millionaires, do you actually know? Most of them are stressed and depressed with unhappy marriages and synthetic lives with little spiritual purpose. You are greater than that!

They are locked into their lives, you aren't! You can be a beach bum, hitch hike to warmer climes, be a volunteer to help others, plan your own future, study anything you like, try many varied jobs, surf the internet from an internet café, sit in the sun, meet new friends, the selection is endless …..

One of the saddest stories that I have recently heard, was of a family who lived nearby. The youngest son wanted desperately to go to a prestigious university, to become a lawyer. He was rejected, by two less well - known colleges and became very depressed and committed suicide. Two days after his funeral, an acceptance letter came from the particular University, he had wanted to attend! If he had waited patiently and accepted what the Universe had sent him, his death could have been averted. Please, never give up on life for material wealth and success. This is not why you incarnated! The Universe does know what you need and will get it to you!

" Work! You Terrans have made it your God! When do you have time to sit and smell the flowers, or watch your children grow up? I have seen happier beggars, than you lot! Remember, everything, happens for a reason. If you have lost your job, it is because you need a change. Something better is coming!! Learn to recognise the new opportunity. It is sent to make you more spiritually alive and more contented. Have faith, it is all for a purpose!"

You may find that by reading our ebooks available from our website, that you change your understanding of life for the better! Our ebook The Secret Rules of Life explains simply, why you are here and how to live life successfully in an uplifting and more contented manner!

Many people have huge issues around their sexuality that can make them feel very depressed and even lead to suicide. Some of the common problems that many people face are - confused gender roles, homosexuality, sexual abuse, incest and rape. An incident early in life, may make many people live their lives with strong feelings of guilt or hatred of the opposite sex.

The Kinsey Report tells us that 10% of people are strongly heterosexual, 10% homosexual and the other 80% slide along the scale. So why are we so hung up on sexual preferences?

Most people want a partner in life who they can relate to emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically, through sex. However, their deep inhibitions and results of trauma, leave them unable to relate to others, which increases their depression. Every message that we have received through channelings from the Ascended Masters and Angels, has always been sympathetic and non-judgmental towards anyone who is sexually confused.

Spirit also, has sympathy for the perpetrator of sexual crimes, knowing that they too, are a confused angel who has lost their way. They expect them to get their act together and stop abusing anyone and to try to make amends where possible, but they don't condemn or hate them. Here are some topics from our free ebook 100 Questions below, with comments from the Ascended Masters, perhaps they will help you with your sexual problems.

A. Definitely not! Sexual feelings are not wrong. They are normal and instinctive. They were developed in you by the Creator, as not only a means of continuing the species, but, also, as a pleasurable activity to bring you joy. Have you not heard of Tantric sex? The Hindus developed the sexual act into an activity which allowed union to the Godforce, to be part of it’s purpose. Many people, while experiencing orgasm, find a little bit of heaven in their lives.

We would suggest, however, when you are engaging in sexual activity that you do it with someone you love and respect. This raises the act into one of ‘loving oneness’, not just lust and animal behaviour. Besides, as any mature person will tell you honestly, that to have sex with someone you love and who really loves you - is a wondrous event in your life. While to have sex with someone you don’t love or respect, makes the act tawdry and inconsequential.

On the other hand, being celibate is not wrong either. If you prefer to channel your energy into spiritual endeavours, sport or creativity, this is fine also. The choice must be always yours. There is no right or wrong answer and neither sexual activity or celibacy, is higher spiritually, than the other.

A. Well of course, rape is wrong, as is molestation or any non consenting sexual activity! No one, should ever hurt or force their behaviour on to another person. That is not spiritual or loving. If you believe in the theory of karma, you will realise that if you harm anyone physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually through rape, that inevitably you will be placed in a similar incident where you will be the victim, not the perpetrator, so that you can experience the pain of the situation and hopefully, never perpetrate the act again. If the karma does not happen in this life, it most certainly will happen in a future life. Karma is the perfect reward and punishment system. You may elude the law in this life, but you can’t evade your karmic responsibilities, forever!

A. Hopefully, there will come a life, when either yourself or your victim will break the pattern. Your higher moral values and deep feelings of empathy towards all fellow beings, will make the act of rape seem atrocious and barbaric. When both of you feel this way and no longer wish to harm each other (and in fact can forgive any negative actions in past lives), the pattern is dissolved forever and the situation will not arise in future lives. Once you have learnt important life lessons, thoroughly, there is no further point in repeating them.

The same conditions apply for child molestation, sexual assault or harassment. Forgiveness is always the most important step. If you don’t learn to forgive, then you carry hatred and pain around with you, influencing this life, negatively and influencing future lives.

Q4. HOW DOES SPIRIT VIEW HOMOSEXUALITY?

A. Again, we would stress that any act of love or sex which is done with respect and love, is not judged as being wrong, by Spirit. Many humans who have had countless incarnations as men and women, may choose to experience a life as a homosexual man or woman. This is not a ‘lesser’ condition. It is just one of many variations.

Certainly, we are not naive enough to think that it may not cause the individual great emotional pain. Society is still prejudiced against anyone who is different or who is seen as a threat. But, the individual soul chooses this lifestyle and emotional and mental pattern quite willingly. This can be perceived as either very brave or very stupid. The choice is yours. But, please have tolerance and love for these souls. Who knows, you may decide to choose a similar life next time! How would you like people to treat you? With love and understanding or resentment and anger?

Q5. HOW DOES SPIRIT VIEW ADULTERY?

A. Usually with sadness, rather than condemnation. Not because of the physical act which may or not be loving, but because trust and faith are broken with their legal partner. If it is discovered, it often causes emotional pain within the relationship and an ending to family life.

This is a time in your society, for many people to end up karma, with many beings who they have previously loved in past lives, as wives, husbands or lovers. That is why many people have many partners in their lives and the divorce rate is so high! This is a perfect example, of spirit using a negative situation for spiritual positivity! We would naturally, prefer you to meet your Twin Flame and live a contented life with your partner, for the rest of your life. But, so few of you marry your Twin Flames that it is inevitable that many people, leave their partners and seek for that elusive being.

Unfortunately, most of you are looking for the wrong type of person in the wrong place!

To return to your original question - yes, adultery is wrong. If your marriage is so dysfunctional, that you need to find someone else as a sexual partner, you need to look at your motives and your marriage. Are you just being immature and greedy or is it time to lovingly and gently end the marriage, so that your partner also, can find their Twin Flame?

A. When we are in love with someone, we create a spiritual or psychic heart chord to their heart. While the relationship is working well and all is rosy, these chords let our emotional love flow to them, from our heart chakra in the centre of our chest. However, when the relationship ends, particularly if it ends abruptly, through hate or anger, these chords are often ripped apart and the two ends left dangling, outside your auric field. This can cause negativity to be drawn into the open chord which causes you physical and emotional pain.

It is important, that you sit quietly and imagine the chord you have sent out being reconnected to your own being and flooded with golden light and love. Don’t leave it trailing out there! Some people of course, gently sever the connection or allow it to gradually dissolve, causing very little pain or anguish. Others, however, keep the heart chord connection attached and never, quite release each other from their emotions, mind or spiritual connection. These people often meet up at night, on the higher astral planes, while asleep, spend time together and forget all about it when they awaken! An astral romance, you have no conscious knowledge of!

If the memories of a past relationship are causing you pain, please disconnect the chord. And please realise, not everyone is meant to be with us, as our Twin Flame. You have merely met a soul mate. Be grateful of the lessons, good and bad that they have taught you. Too many people, only remember the bad things that happened in a relationship! Now, begin to look for your true Twin Flame who will truly appreciate and love you. Don’t try to hold on to past loves. Forgive and forget. Perhaps in the next incarnation, you will have a more successful romance with them!

 

A. In ancient times, often in the large temples, there were priestesses who had sex with the young single men of the town. They did this out of compassion and unconditional love. They were doing this from a higher spiritual perspective. If prostitutes today, also worked from this higher intent, Spirit would have no difficulty with this occupation. Unfortunately, this is not so, in the majority of situations.

Most prostitution takes places purely for money, lust or is related to abuse and drugs. These are all negative reasons for engaging in sex. They do not elevate the spirit, mind or emotions. There is no love or respect involved. Certainly, lots of life lessons are being learnt for the prostitute and the client, but usually these are not of the highest. So, we look at this trade with sorrow, rather than condemnation.

A. Again we must view every situation separately. Incest between consenting adults, with no psychological, emotional or physical pressure being applied by either party, can be seen as acceptable. The Egyptian kings and queens, often married their brothers and sisters. However, in this present day, such a marriage, would normally, be seen as undesirable. Normally your brother or sister is not your Twin Flame. They are possibly a karmic relationship with echoes of romances in past lives, but, your higher spiritual instincts, should tell you not to pursue a sexual or romantic relationship with them in this lifetime.

It is similar with Father/daughter relationships or Mother/son relationships. I do not personally know, of one Twin Flame relationship which is meant to be between these combinations. Incest is definitely, wrong morally and spiritually, when coercion of any type takes place. Particularly, between a stronger adult with family power and a younger immature brother, sister, daughter and son. This is not loving, compassionate or respectful. This is merely lust and greed in action.

Spirit knows that many lessons are learnt through incest, but, the pain and mental anguish that often follows and remains throughout life, are extremely negative and destructive results. Masters would not act in such a way, and wouldn’t you like to be a Master?

A. We will use the term Twin Flame, rather than Soul Mate, which has become a much abused term. You will find many soul mates in your life, from your first childhood sweetheart, to your many teenage dates and perhaps multiple sex and marriage partners. They teach you many valuable lessons about yourself and life. Send them love and gratitude! But, your Twin Flame is someone special. This person usually comes into your life, when you are at a higher stage of spiritual development. Their motives are not just to marry you and have a contented family life, but to inspire you to find your true spirituality, your Life and World plans.

However, usually what happens is this - you begin to discover your true spiritual nature. You continue developing it and discover your Life plan and World plan. You begin to live these plans. You become more wise and unconditionally loving. You begin to treat others with respect and warmth. You then meet your Twin Flame, who has similar objectives and virtues.

Often the attraction is not overwhelming and passionate! Be warned. Karmic relationships (soul mates) often inspire great passion in you immediately. This happens in order to create a relationship for a short time. Sexual attraction will hold you together, just long enough for you to trade karma!

Twin Flames on the other hand, have years to get to know you. They don’t usually rush things. Your common interests will bring you together and slowly, you will fall in love. They will support and encourage you to find your spiritual nature and activate your Life Plan, just as you will support and encourage them. Twin Flames are often -different races, different ages, different social classes. You are drawn together for a similarity of purpose, not because of great physical beauty, money, power or brains.

A Twin flame relationship is based on equality, not the traditional female/ male gender roles. But, you will understand and deeply care for each other. There is no need to put on an act with your Twin Flame. Instead of falling in love - you will both rise in love together!

We have had to look at both agreeable and disagreeable subjects, in our questions on Love and Sex. I believe, that within our hearts, we all truly know, what is right or wrong, constructive or destructive. As in all things in life, you have choice. If you always stop and ask, ‘Is this for my higher Good?’ and answer this truthfully and with love, you will find the answer within you!

Holding on to old pain over sexual issues is a constant drain on your emotional, mental, physical and spiritual energies. There are better things that you can do with your life than sitting around hugging an old wound to you. You are here on this Planet Earth to learn about life issues and many of them are not pleasant to experience - but you are brave enough to overcome them.

It is important to learn to forgive those who may have hurt you in any way. Because if you hold the pain to you, you will inevitably cause yourself, not only mental illness, but actually start a negative reaction in your body which may turn to cancer or such. As an angel in physical form - you can forgive others. You can start a new life for yourself and you can shake off your old feelings of guilt, fear and hate. This is why you have incarnated - for growth, not stagnation. And if you do not release the situation, you may well create a negative karmic bond with your perpetrator which will have to be worked out in a future life. Release that pain and resentment now!

Please be gentle, but resolute with yourselves! You can't change the past, but you can make it work for you in a way that empowers you, not weakens you. Again, it is a matter of perspective. You are angelic, you are not a feeble human. You have come here to experience, not be totally safe all your life. You have a Divine Mission to accomplish, don't let sexual problems stop you achieving it! Love yourself and learn again to love others.

The unexpected death of a loved one, family member or friend, can send you into severe grief. This is natural. However, to maintain this grief indefinitely and to sink into depression, apathy and suicidal thoughts is not!

Most people fear death. They see it as a lack of communication with others, an ending of the physical body and emptiness. Nothing could be farther from the truth! In death you are freed from pain and suffering that is part of the human physical condition. In death you regain your natural being as a magnificent angel. And you do not sit around on a cloud, playing a harp and worshipping God. On the contrary from all accounts, angels live a very busy and fulfilling supernatural existence.

They study subjects that they are interested in - imagine being taught music by Chopin or Elvis, or painting by Michaelangelo. They overseer life on other planets and help and counsel many people in the 3^rd dimension. Once a person has lived their set period of time on Earth and achieved the goals they set out to learn, they return happily to their true spiritual home. Earth is just a training school for them, a tough one at times, but just a temporary visiting place.

Everyone has a set period for being here, whether it is one day, three years, twenty years or one hundred years. You decide the time, before you incarnate down! You may go out in an accident, war, through illness or old age - but the time was preset before you came here!

And more amazingly, your parents, friends etc all agreed to it. You've all just forgotten the plan!

Naturally, you grieve because the one you loved is no longer in physical form - but remember, they decided to exit then and they have returned home to heaven, to live a spectacularly happy life. You are mourning, but they are full of joy! Can you not see then, that your mourning and grief, is a little inappropriate?

"I would like to tell my mother and father that I am very happy here. I have many playmates and family to look after me. Grandmother is here and she showed me around, when I left my body in the hospital. I wasn't a bit afraid, it was great! It is so fantastic here and lots to do! I can think of anything and I have it! I can travel anywhere, without a plane or car! I sometimes go down to see my mother and father and they are so sad, that it upsets me. Please, tell them to be happy. I am. I will see them both one day and we will be together, but they have lots to do now. Tell them to remember me, but to remember me happy, not sad!"

We can learn much from the loved one who has left us. We can be inspired by their life and character or we can sink into depression and erase all the wonderful memories we had of them, by grieving constantly. Your loved one, wants you to be happy, to get over your depression and to live for a special purpose. Value the years, weeks or days you had with them, not the years you think you missed. Don't spoil their triumphant journey home with your tears.

Learn to feel them around you. Talk to them as if they were here now. Laugh and joke with them. And show your respect for them, by getting on with your life, in a better way. Live your Divine Mission, activate your Life and World Plans and live as a tribute to them!

 ILLNESS

When we are seriously ill, we often become depressed, apathetic and some people even think of suicide, as a viable way out of their painful life. Euthanasia has it's place, when the person sees no possible prospect of recovering and their life has become intolerable. However, for many people, depression is part of the symptoms of the disease and once they are recovered from their illness, the depression also lifts and they feel much more optimistic again and get on with their lives successfully.

What most people don't understand, is the spiritual reasons behind their illness. Most doctors, will now agree, that our mental and emotional state can lead to a physical disease appearing in the body. Grief can cause cancer and worry, can cause illness, such as stomach ulcers.

But, what most people don't understand, is that we bring karmic blocks into our life, from past life experiences which we are meant to look at and erase from our body, forever. If we don't look at these blocks voluntarily, they will come out eventually, as illness in the body.

She immediately remembered, under hypnosis, several lives where she had been a slave and been shackled around the ankles, by her owners. The shackles on her lower legs, in those lives, caused her great pain, skin irritations and loss of freedom. In this life, whenever she felt overly restrained, by life situations, such as attending tedious social events, she twisted her ankles or they swelled on their own account.

The sore ankles stopped her doing things in her life, that made her feel restricted and left her free, to just sit and do nothing! I recommended that she learn to deal with confining situations in her life, by talking about them - mainly, by saying no!

She consciously learnt to release the old blocks from her past lives, forgive her past owners and oppressors and her ankle problems disappeared in time, forever.

Illness is often sent to wake you up spiritually. You have written it into you Life Plan, that if you "fall asleep" and forget why you have incarnated, (to do your Divine Mission), then sickness can be sent to you to make you stop, relax and think about your life. Often, in our hectic active world, we never take the time to sit and wonder - what it is all about! Sickness makes us do that.

Frequently, a life threatening illness, will help to change the life perspective of a person. Suddenly, their old priorities are left behind. No longer does work, success and money, mean as much. Now their health and mental stability, spiritual life, friends and nature, take on new priorities. Sickness gives us a second chance to discover who we truly are!

Lady Kwan Yin has channeled this short message and exercise, to explain Illness. It is an extract from our free ebook 100 QUESTIONS.

"If you can discover the psychic reason behind it - all the better. It will make sense of the illness for you. This will also help you, to release this condition forever, once you have released all the emotions around the incident. In this way the sickness should not reoccur again.

This of course is a simplified version, but it works!

Don’t hate your medical condition, realise that there is purpose behind it! Maybe, you need to just take a break from your normal routine and rediscover yourself. Use the time to read spiritual books, meditate, contact your Spirit Guides and plan a positive future.

Often people become very depressed and suicidal when they feel overwhelming loneliness. Yet, their very depressive moods push people away from them. It is not pleasant to be around a sad, morose person who won't go anywhere or do anything interesting. The depressed person wants caring and attention, but seems unable to draw it into his/her bleak life.

Firstly, you must realise that loneliness in your life - has a purpose. You planned for it, before you incarnated to Earth and you asked for it, to teach you lessons. Everything happens for a purpose! Perhaps, in the past, you have been too caught up with friends, activities and stress. Now it is time for you to relax, be alone and use your time constructively for your spiritual growth.

Learn to safely contact spirit, see auras, cleanse chakras, heal yourself, work out blocks and problems (see above), study subjects that intrigue you, read, watch and experiment! This is a time to discover who you truly are - an angel in human form. Learn to love yourself.

Now, if you would like to be less alone - here are some suggestions- begin with -

Begin to - Travel in groups

But you need to phone, log on or contact someone, to begin the process.

Psyche yourself up to do it. Tell yourself, that you are a magnificent angel, using this physical body for a lifetime and now is the time to activate the true inner you!

Do all the things you've always wanted to do, that will make you happy and contented. Ask for angelic help, in becoming the person that you would like to become. Imagine yourself, as you would like to become - empowered, joyful, fulfilled, every morning and night. Now begin acting like that confident person. Imagine people, being your friends and have faith that they will. Plan an interesting life and begin to live it!

Pretend that you're happy and interested in other people, even if you're not! Act the part, soon it will become normal behaviour. Ask others to help you come out of your shell. Most people are kind and willing to invite you to functions and introduce you to other people.

Remember that this is just one stage of your life. You can make the rest of your life - the way you want it!

Activate your Life and World Plans, begin your Divine Mission with confidence, that the Universe will back you up!

If necessary, move house, change job, change your image, join new clubs, learn new knowledge, approach nice people, take a calculated risk - what have you got to lose, except your depression?

And remember what the Angels have told us, countless times - "You are never alone. We are here always. You've just forgotten how to see and hear us. Try a little harder!"

Many depressed people find that they are drawn to listen to music, films and literature that reinforce their feelings of depression sadness. The cumulative effect of listening to the same sad piece of music over and over again can be very destructive. One depressing record, Gloomy Sunday released in the 1930's in Hungary, then later USA and England, was believed to have contributed to the deaths of many suiciders, until it was banned from the radio airwaves!

Constantly reading the negative writings of philosophers who promote violence, non spiritual outlooks and antisocial behaviour can also push a depressed person over the edge into suicidal behaviour. Violent, negative videos and films can also instill a feeling of hopelessness and longing for death in a depressed person.

Humour has been found by psychologists to have a positive effect on curing cancer patients. A funny movie can not only distract you from your depressive mood, but laughter also releases feel - good chemicals into your blood stream. An inspiring book can uplift you mentally and a joyful piece of music can help you regain your emotional balance and feeling of well being. Choose your reading, viewing and listening material well, as it can have long - reaching and dramatic effects on your psyche.

 

This book has been written in the hope, that if you are seriously contemplating suicide, that you first stop and realise who you truly are, why you are here and how suicide will only interrupt your Divine Mission, for a short time. Spirit has told us many times, that suicide only delays the inevitable and you will shortly reincarnate, back to Earth, to face the same set of problems and blocks once more. No one forces you to do so, but you feel that you should come back and give it another try! So we sincerely hope that you recognise the fact, that just delaying going on with your life and resisting your mission, is rather a futile exercise!

 

However, we do realise that not everyone will share this view with us and some people have just had enough of the harshness of Earth and have decided to suicide, to end the pain. If you cannot be coaxed to find your true Mission and get on to creating a more loving, contented life for yourself - we offer a more fulfilling and painless way of leaving the planet. What we would call a Clayton's Suicide. The suicide you have, that's not really a suicide.

 

In other words, you don't kill the physical body, you just leave it and allow a higher being to use it for a spiritual mission. The higher being who gets to use your body, is called a Walk In.

 

17. I have heard of Walk Ins what are they?

That is why, in the few known cases of Walk Ins, the person (usually after a very dramatic life threatening episode) seems to have changed to another personality. The new spirit within the body, takes on many of the memories and responsibilities of the old spirit, but may reject many of the earlier ethics and relationships of the physical human. Usually they begin to live and speak in a much more spiritual manner.

 

What happens to me? Your soul returns to the higher levels, to rest in a type of loving hospital environment and then resumes life on the higher astral planes. In time you will review your life on Earth and then usually elect to return as a baby, once more and live a similar life to the last. This time, hopefully living out your divine mission and creating a fulfilling life for yourself, that does not end in suicide.

 

Can I get my body back? Usually, no. Once the decision is made to give it up, to one of your soul group, they have the responsibility of looking after that body for the rest of it's natural life.

 

What about negative beings taking over my body? It is important that if you are determined to leave your body forever and let a spiritual entity take it over, that you fully prepare for this eventuality. This includes learning protection techniques, communication with higher beings and performing the Walk In procedure properly. Obviously, you do not want any negative being taking over your body and using it for their own ends. Below is the procedure for allowing Walk In to occur safely.

First learn to Protect yourself fully -

Now visualise yourself inside a protective egg shape (auric egg) of golden white light. Inside this protection, at your front and rear, place a power symbol such as a crossU, six pointed starY or ankh. This protective auric egg shell will deflect all negative energies, but allows positive energies through. If you feel unsure of any spiritual or alien beings, tell them to depart. Repeat several times if required

 Before going to sleep, say aloud: ‘I ask my Spiritual Guardian to protect me on all levels of my being, fill my room with golden white light during my sleep and only allow through those of the highest vibration and intent.’

 When you have fully protected yourself, begin to meditate peacefully. Allow the outside world to drift away. Ask to speak to one of your higher soul group members who would like to come, as a Walkin into your body, when you exit it. Allow this being to come forward and speak to you. Listen with your inner ear. Ask him/her their intentions. What will they do with your fully grown body? Will they take on the loving commitments that you have made to family and friends?

Notice the feel of the spirit talking to you. Is it loving, caring and pure? Do you feel that you would like this being to takeover your body, when you leave it?

If all seems well and you have discussed your reasons for leaving the body with your potential Walk In, set a date for your departure. On this date if you are still determined to leave the physical body (you can change your mind at any time) lie down on a flat surface, where you cannot be disturbed. Protect yourself with golden/white light and ask for your spirit to leave the body forever and travel to the higher realms, down the passage of light. Ask Archangel Michael to then bring the higher Walk in spirit, into your body. Let the exchange happen in peaceful, loving surroundings. You may well fall into a deep sleep and awaken gradually to life on the higher realms.

The Abbotts.

Robyn and Tony Abbott. 

Copyright, The Abbotts 2001.